Hi Evrybdy!I'm doing BCA from IGNOU.My problem is that i cant concnterate on studies & waste my time unusualy.

Question

I always take wrong decesion wen concern on my studies & realize later.Plz Help me.

Answer 1

I had the same problem when I first went to college and I did poorly because of bad choices (a lot of wasted time!). There were many reasons that I didn't do as well as I should have (several of which are listed below). Everyone is different, so you'll have to analyze yourself. You poor choices could be for any number (or combination) of reasons:

1. If it is because you are bored with the classes, you can take more challenging classes or more interesting ones.

2. If it is because you are struggling with the work, you can get tutoring or take some easier classes first.

3. If it is because you are afraid of failing (so you don't put your best effort and that way you don't take a chance of having anyone challenge your ability/intellect) OR

4. If it is because you are afraid of succeeding (which may mean you're worried about where you're heading with your life and the expectations others have for you) then you could have an honest talk with yourself and decide who you want to be down the line.

It could also be that:

a. you have too many distractions (pressure from home, worried about other relationships or money or job or health, or you're homesick, or you're in love, upset because you aren't in love, etc,)

b. you haven't developed enough self-discipline and need to get yourself on a written schedule, make deals with yourself to reward yourself ONLY when you meet certain milestones, get a study partner to encourage you, etc.

c. you aren't enthusiastic about your program because it isn't the right one for you--so you need to explore your options to get into something that motivates you better

d. you didn't say your age but some people just aren't ready for college at 18, 19, or 20 ... they need a little more time to find out who they are before they can get serious about their studies.

My first year at college was horrible--I had low grades, hated school, didn't want to be there. I was under pressure from my parents, didn't know what I wanted to do with my life, felt lonely, struggled in some classes and was bored in others, and more.

That was 27 years ago. Now I have three master's degrees from reputable U.S. universities and my graduate grade point average is a 4.0 ... I did much better once I analyzed myself to see why I didn't do well as an undergraduate while getting my bachelor's degree.

Good luck ... the fact that you are aware that you aren't on-track for success and that you are trying to figure out why that is tells me that you have a great chance of being successful in your future! ~ Roma

Answer 2

Hi friend,

        I just completed my B.C.A by this year 2008.

        Its a very interesting course.why you can't concentrate in studies?avoid bad companies.first you must analyse your schedule from morning to night.make a note of it.go through it.you will find that how you wasted your time.leave that necessary things.you must have selfcontrol.If you have any problem share it with your mother or sweet hearted person who is encouraging you.Do meditation.you must think of your future,your parents and how they are working for you.can i see your positive reply?ok it will happen soon.

self confidence is important.never loose this in any situation.

Bye...Take care..

Answer 3

huh what a jock u chosen to do bca and u only lost interest on that very bad ........if u know ur wasting time than avide that wastage know......

Answer 4

please think take all ur bad feelings

do not think bad

Answer 5

yes! we r human beings. n sometime as we know we r doing bad but could not refine our selve. I had faced that problem. but i am not in a high level class as u r. i will advice u that before sleeping count all of ur time which u had wasted in whole day for eg. 4 hrs. then promise to ur self that u will try a lotttttt to waste only 3 hrs. n next night only 2 hrs then 1 hr and so on. n i think if u r really interested to save ur time n punctually act on my advice INSHALLAH it will take only one week to erect ur self. ok take care.