Hi I'm scared that someday that I will snap to Metamorphosis?

Question

Hi thank you for your help & your words. I am a person who likes people,looking out for my friends, good heart,my family,responsible, cares,honest,respecful & a good guy not like my uncle or my dad. In my hold life, I had friends were foe's & were no good. I have in love girls that I use to like & I always end up heart broken because "some" but not all but mostly girls are cruel human being. I never cheated on a girl or disrespected to them in my life. Friends they come & go. They say to you are a good friend & girls will say to me that I'm a nice guy but, I new is just talk & lies.

I've been single for almost 8yrs now. The only thing that I have is school,work & my family. I am just tired & I believe if I change to a different person & no more Mr.Nice Guy, I will have more fun & feel good. I am...just confuse & my heart is cold.

-God bless you...

Answer 1

First - You can't change who or what you are, so forget the changing part. Second, you attract who you are per time. Third - you can't fish for sharks in the pond ... go to the open sea.

Answer 2

Amen, u 2!

Answer 3

I think that all you need to do is find peace within yourself. Develop strengths not weaknesses. Develop independence and self-sufficiency. These are assets which are like magnets to the ladies! You cannot change who you fundamentally are - but you can find the complete you. Google a short piece called Desiderata. Find the peace within your soul and the rest will fall into place. Take some time out  from your brain dwelling on these things and come back refreshed and with a more positive outlook on life. No man is an island - find your peace.

With my very best wishes for a happier you very soon. UK