Hi..My work place is in chennai.My lover is based in cochin, & he doesnt wanna shift 2 chennai?

Question

My lover is terribly adamant about that, and my dreams n career will go for a toll if I shifted to cochin... If I say I work for 5 days a week, I fly in the morning , work for about 9 hrs in chennai (I wanna choose my time of flying) and return to cochin, is there any concession pass like bus and train pass ..... ??

I love him just way too much that I dont mind to take the tedious travel everyday .... But really cant afford it :( ... ... Is there any flight pass for a year that gives unlimited travel only from cochin to chennai(to & from to one particular destination)? Kindly enlighten me on this...

Answer 1

no flight passes like train and bus.  you better have a discussion with him.  is he needs your employment?  if not, resign your job and join him or get any employment at cochin.  it is a matter between you and him through discussions.  we can suggest, but the matter is whether it suits you both is the question.  i think, this is the life matter and no 3rd party suggession will workout.  it is a matter to be solved on mutual discussion, because you both are in 2 ends.  you are in the bank of Bay of bengal and he is in the bank of Arabic ocean.

Answer 2

u can have me.. malaysia...

Answer 3

Don't be so desperate. Just take a firm stand. Tell him your career is important to you. Stay in Chennai. You cannot keep shuttling like this.

Give it some time. In about a year or so, he will come to understand your point of view. He will also respect you. Maybe, you can work out some other solution between yourselves.