Hi everybody!!! My name is Kevin. I really need ou guys help.?

Question

I'm interested in a girl, actually a lady. I'm 17 and she's 27, so she's 10 years older than me. We are international students and studying at the same college. I have known her for 8 months. 2 months ago, i realized that i have special feeling with her. When i talked to her, my heart beat faster, i felt nervous. I cared about her more than before. I don't know what is going with me. Her face, her voice, and special her SMILE is always in my mind. I know it's crazy when a young "guy" likes a lady. I'm confused between telling her or not about my thoughts about her. I will turn 18 next year and we will study at the same school for 2 years. My friends worried about be. They're afraid that i'm gonna get hurt. I know. A lady at her age will look for a man who has a job, a house, a car. What about me? I don't have any job. I'm a student.But i still wanna have a relationship with her. Plzzz help me with this problem (Plz be honest, i'm a serious person, i don't want people think me as a kid)

Answer 1

hello my name is paola and are italy rome. I read the case for your story, the fact is not be children or not is that the age difference between a man and a woman feels a great deal if the male is to be smaller I advise you not to have a story with you rather looking for a girl of your age. with Professor probabilmante would last only a few months and would only s*x. Hello kisses

Answer 2

You are a kid ! its just fantasy.

Can you imagine her taking you home to meet her parents ?

How funny would that be !

Hey mum and  dad here is my 17 year old boyfriend.

Answer 3

you're not compatible most likely

Answer 4

This is a tough one. You must remember that in 2 years this lady will be entering her 30's and will probably be very ready to settle down, whereas you'll still be a very young man and have a lot of living to do. I could see a casual fun-filled fling happening here, but not a deep long term relationship. However, you could prove us all wrong! At the end of the day its up to you!

Answer 5

You may have compatible values and emotions with the women which I would say is the most important part of having a relationship but I would advise not to pursue this. Practical scenarios (you not being ready for children or settling down in a house together) that causes strain on one anther's life may slowly eat away at any strong feelings you have for each other and cause you a lot of pain which may affect you massively in the long run

Answer 6

Well like you said. A girl at 27 is looking for somebody who has a car, house, job, etc. And you on the other hand aren't even 18 yet. I know it really sucks but trust me theirs plenty of "younger" fish in the sea. And I can tell that your a bit immature my how you put how you say "plzzz"

so people who read this will think your more of a kid then an adult. I'm 16 and I think I sound a bit older then you since I don't use "plzzz"  

It's not really a big deal but if your trying to prove people your  not a kid, don' t use kid words.

Answer 7

if you really do feel that way bout her give it a try. im not trying to say you will get hurt but as long as you know how she treats guys. if shes respectful towards you and makes you feel like that dont let it pass up.

Answer 8

Sorry bud...If your only 17 and she is 27....If you like her stay away from her...Your way to young for her...your Jail bait, you can ruin her, or worse put her in jail....Go find some one your own age Dude!

Answer 9

well i was 16 and my babys daddy was 22 and you know what it worked out for 7 years  love is blind if two people love one another and its not illegal that is all that should matter the only you should keep in mind is that she may not fell the same and she is 10 years older than you , i found when i talked to my ex about certain things we were so far apart in age that he wanted to be the "boss" and things of the past he didnt seam to rember the way i did like cartoons events extc. and in the end my relationship ended but i had alot of fun and wouldnt take it back for anyhting in this world life is about experinces **** what everyone says go wiht your instinct you got one life dont regret that u never told her hey i got rejected by a guy i relly liked but i had to find out lol no hard fellings

Answer 10

TRY AGAIN AND AGAIN

Answer 11

be mature and ask her out for a COFFEE not a date but if the coffee goes well say i would like to see u again i mean out side college and invite her to a movie but  DONT  watch a romantic movie watch a comedy or something along those lines but dont jump the gun after u have invited her to movies and a coffee and maybe a place with games where u win tickets then go from there if u play ur cards right u could do alright just dont let her no u asked about this on yahoo lol  hoped i help