Hi help with wife and mother in law?

Question

m i am 27 years old male married and mother in law lives with us cause i respect my wifes choice ,but i fight a lot with them on lot of stuff like they dont clean and my wife doesnt even cook and i do all the **** cook and clean afterwards and im not happy to tell the truth ,her mother went overseas for six months i started to keep clean and cook everywhere always clean and i was happy ,now she came back after 6 months and after just 1 egg the cooker was a mess and she didnt even clean afterwards now we started again fighting me and wife ,and i had to put a sign that says keep kitchen clean and always clean cooker after use ,and my wife started to tell me that im crazy cause i want kitchen clean ,what yous people suggest what can i do ? ok i was thinking of just letting go mywife and mother in law and make a new life ,but apart from that ? and anotha think ,im the only 1 that drives too i have to do everythin is this worthit ,i dunno i just want to be comfy in a clean home .

Answer 1

Do what the first answer says and if nothing happens hurry up and get a divorce. My dad made the same mistake but you don't have to. If its not a partnership 50:50 than time to start a new life.

Answer 2

Hey i though my man was the mess now its a woman how shameful she should be the one who is cleaner than u and always be telling how to be clean,anyway u should try en talk to her and the mother,each to do work like monday its,u then wife then her with that u can plan en start helping en why is she staying with you anyway mother in-law are always a mess if you know,.Another thing why dont you just sit en dont do nothing go have fiun with friends en see if they will even if its a week en stink ,do that en they will learn u used to do something..

Answer 3

here's a little test, don't do any cleaning.  i know it will probably suck for a few days.  If nothing gets done during that time, then there is one problem, they both are relying on you.  A marriage is a partnership, each person has a role.  If they expect you to do everything, it's about time to jump ship, because it will only get worse.