Hi i Need help....i am an indian lady i have just moved to US with my husband....my problem is communication

Question

I simple find it very difficult to talk to anyone here....i don't know how to communicate with others here....i have tried saying hi hello with a smile but after that i go zap.....coz of this my neighbors have started avoiding me....my husband has started blaming me for everything....help me as it has affected my confidence a lot.....

Answer 1

Well, you have to make a choice to get over your fear of speaking with people here in the U.S. The only way you will communicate better is by practicing.  Go and make conversation. The grocery store, library..gas station. Wherever!  There's no need to be embarrassed.  Then, you can show your husband that you can do things on your own.  

Answer 2

keep saying hi , with a smile. you wont get a hi back from everyone. but dont stop trying. its not you. some people are so wrapped up in their own problems they barely see you. dont worry. you will make friends. just ignor any negativity from your neighbors. and tell your husband he can try too.its always hard at first.