Hi i am 13 and im the kinda teenage kid that gets all the girls i hate to brag lol but anyway (read below)

Question

theres this girl that i would love to date but i dont know why but i dont know how to ask her out i dont know what it is with her cause most the time i can ask any other girl out no problem and they would say yes but this 1 is special can you people help me?

Answer 1

I think it's better if you ask her out in person. Maybe write a note to her and have a friend bring it up to her for you. Don't be nervous though or it will mess it up. Just ask her. Maybe get to know her more if you guys aren't really that close yet so that you won't be as nervous around her. Hang out with her awhile before you ask her out. This is what worked for me with a guy.

If you aren't the type of guy to write notes like that, I would just look really nice and when you see her next time, just go up to her and be like "Hey, your really nice and I really like you. Do you wanna go out?" or something like that. Make it special though.

Good luck.

Answer 2

you should go on www.freewebs,com/emayegee this is a really good advice website where people give you advice and you can give advice to other people

Answer 3

well if you're not friends with her already then maybe you should consider that. You should try to become her friend first get to know her better and then when she warms up to you it will be easier to ask her out. Hope it works. Or maybe you can just ask people if she likes you. If they say she does then just flat out ask her. There's no worries.

Answer 4

aw this is really sweet

well, if she thinks your a player, (which you may or may not be, but if u get all the girls she may just assume), dont use much about how hot or fine or s**y she is, unless shes pretty good with guys and is used 2 it

say something about her being beautiful. or how cool she is. i would start off with personality, then looks. and if she responds well, ask her to the movies, thats always a good place to start. another good way is, after the flirting, tell her your firend and there gf/bf are going to the movies, and you were going with them, and if she would like to come along?

hope i helped=)

also, if she respnds well the the beginnigns flirting, THEN you can thrwo in hot or s**y =)

Answer 5

Because for once this girl actually means more to you than 'gettin her'.

We can all get in this situation but you need to make her feel like shes not just another girl.

Talk to her, make her realise that she means more to you than the others.

Answer 6

I think you like her very much and you are just afraid to be refused

Answer 7

i bet she will fall for u if u tell her that shes special! n tell her why..out of all the other girls! im sure u can come up with something on the spot...dnt over think it but dont focus on her looks alone!

Answer 8

Just ask her. She seems special to you but she's not going to respond any different than the other girls you have asked. She will prob say yes. The worst that could happen is she could say no and theres no way to find out except ask.

Or you could just start a conversation with her and then you can tell if she likes you or not. If she seems into you then ask her.

Answer 9

You know your just like one of my guy friends. Your a ladies man you say... yeah okay.... Just go up to her and be honest with her. Tell her you like her and go from there. Ask her  to the movies and watch the movie don't makeout with her.... I mean girls like it when guys are nice to them and listen to them when they need it. OK ladies man?

Answer 10

just ask her out the way u would any other girl. shes obveosly different than the others but don't let that stop u! chanses are she'll say yes, and who knows, you 2 could get something great started!

Answer 11

OMG i'm 13 aswell okaiii dress up for scool like u normally would and wear some clone u noe that kinda stuff and just be like hey you wanna go out with me? If u got confidence she'll say yes!

Answer 12

Mmm, you hate to brag but you're the kind of guy that gets all the girls ... but this girl isn't interested.

I'd say if you think about it, you'll find the answer to your own question.

I'd also say that you are set to learn a valuable lesson, which is you can't always get everything or everyone you want.

She's a smart girl, I think.  

Answer 13

Your problem is that you are too full of yourself and this can completely turn chicks off, no matter how good looking you think you are.  Quit acting like Gods gift to women and they may like you better.  13 is too young to be dating anyhow.

Answer 14

i think that you are actually in love. not the short time span crush, i mean true love.

Hope I Helped!

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Answer 15

Awww I feel bad 4 you. I'd never ever go out with any one under 16( i'm 13 but am waiting until 16 to start dating beacuse I've never meet a desent boy that's in Jr.high  School and figure i've a better chance of forever with more mature boys.  )

       Anyway, don't ask her  like any other girl. Make it specail tape flowers to her locker and write a note from a screate admirer and let her sit for a few days. Then ask her if she got your note and ask her out. Do poetry or something cute and orginal don't ask her out in the note.