Hi i am 19 yr old boy!! am confused can u guys help me

Question

I dont know why i always fall for older woman ..itz not that i dont like my age girls .. bt knowingly or unknowingly whenever i meet woman in there 30's i jst fall for them d vibe they send around make me simply go wild ....

wat am asking is this wrong ...i mean if its fyn then y do i feel guilty after fantasizing abt them ????????

Answer 1

Don't worry about tomarrow ,if today be sweet .

Answer 2

That is sooo cute! And I guess it is good because "cougar-ism" (<<when an older lady dates younger men) is becomming more and more popular!

Answer 3

get a good job and be a bachelor

Answer 4

Theres no harm in what u feeling, dude:-

                       JUST DO IT !!

Answer 5

Well you have to look at why you feel guilty first...11 years is a pretty long distance..but I've seen worse.  It isn't like youre hittin on the 80's.  That would be just plain disturbing.  

Answer 6

Hey buddy  this same problem is with me also. According to me all have tendence like you or me. After marrige  I think it will reduce. I am also same as you I9   bye  

Answer 7

Nothing wrong with that in and of itself, but try focusing your attention on fewer women. Older = more mature and rational (usually) and flashing some bling or putting racing stripes on your junker just ain't going to cut it.

You've got to develop some maturity yourself or you just don't have anything to offer them.

Answer 8

There's nothing wrong with you dude. Its b'coz size matters for the world and you are a part of the world.

Answer 9

Well i am 27 and am in the same situation. I fond of older women too between 30-36. My personal experience in this regard is i want stable, matured and some meaningful relationship with them. I find it useless giggling with girls in the Metro or at some public places. I've heard them talking meaningless and foolish. Although they are in their teens but they should behave like a grown up person with whom u can share ur thoughts and ur sentiments, emotions and feelings etc. I think matured womens are more sensible and they can feel the warmth of ur feelings for them. All this is happened through non verbal communications. One could only feel it. Its unexplainable.

Request you to describe ur choice. I wish to know what u think about it.

Answer 10

even i had asked the same question in a very different manner . this is because of age u can get attracted to any girl . especially 30s . what to do just control u r self no other way .. its all about teen

Answer 11

thats weird. but i suggest that u try to just go out with the closest girl ur age u can find. evolve from there...just get out of the habbit or something

Answer 12

no that's cool, There not all stupid and giggly either like girls ur age.

PLUS they will teach you a thing or two upstaires you didnt know you could do with it lmao - GOOD LUCK :-)

Answer 13

agree with 2nd answer..

Answer 14

U R CONFUSED.....

STRT LOVING A GIRL OF UR AGE FIRST,EVERY THNG WILL GET CHANGE....

Answer 15

because they're hot, hot, hot... have a career... and they know what they want

Answer 16

dude...

love has no boundaries

Answer 17

No, it is not wrong.  It is natural for you to be falling for "older" women.  You are in your sexual peak now.  Women in their thirties are in their sexual peaks.  You feel guilt because society through media still tells people you should fantasize about women aged 18-24.  Don't fret.  You're just right.

Answer 18

older women are more mature and come across as more confident...it seems like you have a fetish for older women since your 19 i say have fun with it...they are most likely better in bed since they are experienced and more comfortable with themselves

Answer 19

You might be mature for your age. You might see them as your "peers". There is nothing wrong with that either... You might feel guilty because you are going against the social norm but who cares about that?

Answer 20

i like guys my age  too

but i also find many older men attractive

i see nothing wrong

Answer 21

I think you have not any elder sister and mother. So you always fall for older women.

It is normal

Answer 22

A lot of Guys like older woman. It's nothing wrong.

I guess it's because older woman tend to be more mature and experienced in certain fields.

You probably feel bad about it though because they are as old as your mum =/

but don't feel bad :]

Answer 23

It is perfectly normal. The experience is attarcting you. Just don't bother.