Hi i have a problem please help (im 13)

Question

im driving in the car for a 2 to 2 and a half hour drive and i have a worry all the time that im gonna poo my pants, how can i get these thoughts out of my mind they are the only thing i ever think of

Answer 1

just c**p yur pants

you wont have to worry anymore and what's the worst that can happen?

Answer 2

It's just anxiety. Just make sure you're calm and feeling okay before entering a car.

Answer 3

try to go to the washroom often before you get into the car

and if you need to go, i guess they'll have to stop and

let you go

take care

Answer 4

Have you had that experience before, even when you were really young, that you can remember? Have you had an overwhelming experience in the car as a small child?

It would be awfully embarrassing for that to happen, (most thing are when  you are 13) but remember it is it only embarrassment, and no one has actually died from embarrassment, they have only wanted to!

I hope you have very caring parents who have no problem stopping at a restroom for you when you are on long trips, and have you ever talked to them about your worries? I know, again, that would be embarassing but maybe we need to get used to a bit of it hey? It will help you in later life too.....

Hope car rides are beter for you soon love.

Mel

Answer 5

welllll, im thirteen, and thirteen year olds should be able to control their shitholes?

and why dont you just go before you go in the car?

ive been in a car for five hours and have not had to go to the bathrooom once.  

Answer 6

that sounds like an anxiety problem. i am pretty much the same way.  i worry about having to throw up or go to the bathroom and stuff and being embarrassed.  you need to not let it take over your life like me.  you should just remember how stupid of a fear it is and you can always consult a doctor to prescribe you medicine to help calm your anxiety.  good luck and just remember not to stress