Hi i need sum help with my auntie?

Question

this is my first question and please dont say oh the spellings wrong cos i know it is iv got dislexia meaning i cant spell so on with the question im a bridesmaid for my aunties wedding shes got 8 of us and shes struggeling with the money the youngest bridesmaid is ma wee cousion clare and oldest my mum grace shes 42 now im 13 and wondering weather to tell my aunte just to drop me as a brides made if the money is to much and im gonny save up £200 to give to her as a presant what do you think i should do thanks for the help

Answer 1

A) Dyslexia DOES NOT have anything to do with spelling.  In fact, the therapy/help for dyslexia is typing on a computer, funny enough.

B) It takes nothing to hit the little "Check Spelling" button

(I would have brought neither of these up, but you called attention to it.  I figured I'd give you a heads up on your reasoning before you try to use it again.)

It's your aunt's choice who is in her wedding.  Sweet of you to think of her welfare, but she's probably already considered the financial aspect.  Let her handle it.

You can give your aunt as much as you want.  I don't know where you live, but that's 200 pounds, right? Translates to about $400, US.  How does a 13 year old have the means to come up with that?  And if you can, why not SAVE it?  You'll need it sooner than you think...  Be responsible for yourself and your money, and let your aunt do the same. :-)

Answer 2

Why don't you say to her that you're really honored to be a Bridesmaid at her wedding but if she's finding the money to much you will totally understand if she has to withdraw her offer. That way she'll not think you're just trying to get out of it.

If you really are 13 you sound like a very considerate and mature young lass.

Good Luck

Answer 3

Stay as her bridesmaid, and use the money to help pay for your own dress, shoes, accessories, getting your hair done and all that fun stuff because she obviously wants you in the wedding and a great gift to her would for you to be able to pay for your own stuff! Have a great time, hope all works out!

Answer 4

Be a bridesmaid. She wouldn't have asked you if she didn't want you to be in it. Maybe you should spend the 200 for your dress, if you're not already paying for that. Ask her if she wants you to do that. I'm sure she'd rather have a wonderful wedding day with you in it than 200 bucks!

Answer 5

be her maidsmaid she doesn't need to buy the dearest dresses BHS have nice ones and there not dear or i hire i did for my bridesmaid cos they don't use them again and you could get her vouchers for a wedding present that way she can buy what she needs

Answer 6

Why don't you offer to buy your own outfit?? that would help so much i know lol my bridesmaid's have offered to pay for their own and it's saved us so much money, talk to her about it and say you are willing to just be a guest if money's tight or would she like you to pay for your own outfit instead of a wedding gift, i know which i'd prefere

good luck x x

Answer 7

Hi Courtney,

1st, don't worry about dyslexia, your use of all the letters on these odd keyboards, keep using it.

It would be wonderful if you bought a wedding present for any relative or freind.

All the best !

Bob

Answer 8

this is a really sweet thought of you but your auntie wouldn't have picked you if she didn't want you to be involved in this speacial moment in her life :)

Answer 9

be a bridesmaid  give here money for wedding

Answer 10

If you can offer to pay for your own outfit....it must mean alot to have you in her wedding, and this will help out....it can be part of your present money....good luck.