Hi my twins keep fighting each other their 3yrs old and their girls?

Question

they have their own rooms and i try to put them there but one of them will come out and go to the others room and start a fight im so tired !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! their dad is out of town and i cant do it by my self . what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 1

sit them down and set firm rules with them.  I know this may be hard for you because i'm getting the feeling that dad is normally the disciplinarian.  Tell them that whoever gets out of there room, will be punished (spanking, something taken away, timeout, no dessert, etc) and follow through.  Also, can dad be reached by phone?  if so, ask them if they want you to call dad and tell him what they are doing.  

Another thing that my aunt did when i was younger (they may be a little too young for this one though) is to sit them in chairs about 5 feet away from each other, facing each other and tell them they cannot scream or touch, but they can talk quietly to each other about what the problem is, but they are not allowed to insult each other.  Normally my cousin and i would have things sorted out within 10 minutes, but as i said before they are probably a little young for this - i believe i was like 5 or 6 when she started this with us.

Answer 2

I know it might sound wrong but what i do when i babysit is one thing.....................BRIBE  THEM

Answer 3

Let's see.....Have you tried giving them something to do in their own room? Then maybe they would stay there and be entertained. Maybe tell them that, if they come out of there room again, you will take away their right to watch TV or have no desert. Something that they would want to keep. Good luck ;)