Hi um i was woundering if there is anyone out there that fell in love at 14 and stayed with that person?

Question

I'm 14 and ive been with this guy almost a year. hes a year older than me. and everyone tells me I'm too yong to know what love is but i really love him. i have given him so much. my mom fell in love with him but she didn't know we were dating we went behind her back, and i regret that so much. she wont let me see him. but i just need to know if its possible for me to really love this guy. I'm 14 but i feel like I'm 18 trap ed in a 14 year old body. please anyone that fell in love yong and got married and stayed together talk to me. or even just fell in love yong.

Answer 1

Well when i was 14 i felt the same way..ive always felt older then i was....but neways when i was 14 i dated this guy for a year i lost my virginity to him and thought i loved him soooooooo much but i found out he cheated on me so it ended. after dating more guys i realized i didnt love that boy as much as i thought when i was 14 it was more like puppy love. But it doesnt matter how old you are if you love someone you love em. But i know a lot of people that have been with their boyfriends for like 2-4 yrs and still going strong&& i'm only 17.  

Answer 2

Yes my sister Was ur age when she started talking to this guy

and now shes 21 and shes gonna get married to him soon !

Answer 3

i dont think you can love someone at your age.

you may think you do, i know i have done but its just like all the hormones making you think that and stuff.

good luck anyway, it may work out for you!

Answer 4

I was 14 when i first met David. He was 17 at the time. We fell in love and stayed together for a year. he moved away. we broke up. we kept in contact for 5 yrs! Both of our families were old friends. They even thought we were meant to be together. When i turned 18-19, we decided to make it work..long distance..and maybe flights back and forth. Well some things came up and i moved several more states away. He sent me an email saying he was breaking up with me due to the distance. Which broke my heart, but i knew we could hopefully make it work. Well a week later he marries some chick he met online...yes online!! Then his new wife decided to call me several times...and so finally i told him..." I have loved you since i was 14, but apparently we are not right for each other. If you or your new wife try to contact me, my friends or my family...i will call the cops". It was a big deal. It took me awhile to get over it. Cause first loves are forever. We had some great times and he helped open my eyes to love and a deeper friendship i have ever felt. I will always be grateful. Now im 21 and have been dating a great guy for about a year now. So in love. Do not always go with your " first" love. You need to get out and experience life by yourself and date around...then you will meet Mr. Right. Your first love will always be in your heart forever, but i think that you shouldnt just have that in your heart. God Luck Little One.