High School "Rules"?

Question

i'm lost its my junior year in high school and its my first year that anyones ever noticed me besides someone to pick on. i mean i'm finally popular girls like me everyone knows me. i know i should be pumped but i'm nervious about it. like is the only reason that i'm "cool" now because i'm one of our star football players. i mean thats not a big feat at my school which went 2-8 or something. so should i be worried that people only like me for football or should i go with the flow.

Answer 1

just be yourself and the people who like you for that will be your friends and those are the people you should be friends with

Answer 2

go with the flow, its better to be in the in crowd than reject it, rejection could lead to bullying, keep old friends close though, hang out with the new people yeah but remember its the friends that stick by you no matter what who are worth keeping, not people who could leave you if dont win the football game or whatever, just be casual, dont let people in too much though, some popular types are users and gossipers but not making a generallisation here, im really un-popular but i have a few popular friends who arent like the main, you just got to be careful. Just act how they act and you'll fit in fine, but dont do anything you dont want to if anyone tries to get you to pick on someone or take drugs or whatever remeber just because it might feel popularity is taking over in your life its still YOUR LIFE not theirs, good luck.

Answer 3

it's just fake liking..people should like u for how u are ..not for how u trow some ball !

Answer 4

Just go with the flow. high school is SO superficial...the popularity, the status, etc.  be yourself...you probably won't talk to half the people you do now in a few years anyway.

Answer 5

they just like coz youre on the football team.so i suggest that you find true friends because by the time you get off the team youll have nobody anymore because the "cool" people are not really friends but instead a posy

Answer 6

Jus t go with the flow.  Eventually they will see you for the real you.

Answer 7

6'6 210lbs. seriously , who is gonna mess with someone that big just to be a bully ... go with the flow ... enjoy it .. high school is only a temporary  condition. And now that you are big .. don't become a bully or look for revenge .

Answer 8

Just go with th flow! Have fun enjoy it!

Answer 9

the correct answer is.... to be apathetic

Answer 10

Make sure you're making the right friends. From my perspective i'm thinking they only like you because of your "skillz." That's just my perspective. If people picked on you years before and now all of a sudden since you play football your popular? Doesn't sound logical to me. I dont know though. Maybe they are your real friends!!