High school, really anxious?

Question

schoolscoming up and I'm really excited to get out the house. I'm not really worried about school, but last year I was bullied alot by this really fat girl who was jealous of me who used to be a friend before she stopped actingnice to me. So now I have a hard time trusting people. I'm trying to not let it effect me but...could this be a self esstem issue?/

Answer 1

Its not a self esteem issue.

Its a trust issue. Just make sure u just bring people close to you that you can trust. You dont have to trust someone either....Just hang out with them, laugh,,let them tell you whatever and when it comes to secrets or how you feel keep it to yourself or keep it short.

And that fat girl has no confidence. Thats why she bullied around. Next time ur bullied stare at them in the eye, if you dont want to say anything just stare at them in the eye, and if you can make your voice agressive, tell them to fxxk off or something. dont be afraid cause they think you are intimidated by them. if you say it loud thell probly be shocked or sum.

Good luck and high school way more funner then middle school. Everyone says you "find yourself" in high school, so if you just be yourself but watch out for your feelings and untrustworthy people. your going to find your friends faster and easier then ever. It will all just clique and you'll love it.

Here's some tips.

1. be yourself. its the easierst way to find the true friends.

2. to make a friend: start off with a compliment EX: nice shoes, where did you get them? ANd then start a conversation about it and then ask what her name is and what grade she's in. Then if you see her at lunch go up to her.

3. Be careful with your friend's boyfriends. Dont betray ur friends for any GUY.

4. when it comes to clothes, its not all that matters. You can be dressy, and dress with style, but dress to be something unique and dont be afraid to have you're own stlye.

5. CONFIDENCE. Act confident if ur not. Anyone cant sense it if your not confident. Being confident is knowing who you are and being who you are even if people try to change you or judge you.

6. Be friendly and smile!! When people see you as a optimistic fun-loving person, they will want to spend time with you. DONT OVER DO IT AND BE TOO LOUD OR TOO HAPPY.

7. Make up a nick-name that everyone will know you by. Something like a shorter version of your name. Like if your name is Niyanna then call yourself Yany. Or just make a nick name u like and tell everyone u meet they can call u by that name. Like Pookie, or Jay, or Nez... ANything you want. It will get you known and noticed.

8. Do your school work. It will pay off when you get to college and it will make the teachers like you.

9. Get into school clubs. It will give you a chance to be somebody and meet diferent groups of people in the school.

10. No rolling bookbags. LOL What's in is the handbags that look like purses, or the Jansports or Dickies bookbags.

11. Make up? Stick to lip gloss and a light bit of eye-liner if your mom lets you.

12. The teachers might ask you to stand up and introduce yourself. Say your nick name and then how old you are. And if you like to dance say you like to dance. OR, If you like rock a lot, say I have a passion for rock. Just keep it short and then smile, look nice, serious, confident. Then you can sit down,

13. When you head your papers, head your papers at the top right hand side of the papers. Put your real name, first and last. Then under it put the date. Then you put the subject and class peroid. Then the teachers name. And then head your paper with the name of the assignment.

EX:

Ashely Jones

9/16/08

Reading, p5

Ms. Perez

(Then on the top line you write): Class Requierments

14. Dont be afraid to speak your mind and show everyone what you got. Just dont be cocky and get conceited. Do everything with optimism and confidence and treat everyone equally.

15. Good luck and dont be nervous, there's nothing to be nervous about. School is fun if you hang out with people you really like, if you be who you are, if you get good grades and try your best, and if you stay OPTIMISTIC. (it means happy and possitive)

Good luck, and I hope I helped.

If u have any other questions ask them and I'll answer em for you.

Oh and if u want to impress the older guys DONT BE S****y. Be confident, and stay cute. Not too talkitive and be calm. Dont show too much skin or u'll look like a young tramp who's asking for it, and guys will see u as easy bait.

Wear clothes that compliment ur skin tone and your body.

HAVE FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!