High school problem?

Question

hey i got this problem in high school, im a freshman of coarse, i have these douche bags that are just making fun of me for no reason and i cant fight back because they are practically the buffest dudes in the 9th grade, and im afraid to tell anyone because usually it ends up with them telling everyone and its really embarrassing, any tips??

Answer 1

have integrity dude, talk smart to them so they think they are dumb, they may not act like it, but they do, and it should stop

Answer 2

try to avoid them if you can, if not try to make it look like you didnt hear them or that your not botherd.

everyone goes through this at some stage in there life, just some worse than others.

stick with your friends or a group in general, because there is a pretty good chance they the people that you hang with dont like these bullies either therefore they should leave you alone. or verbally attack the group not just you.

the most important thing to keep in mind is your schooling itself, you dont know how important it is until you finish school.

the people that used to bully me at school are all now struggling out in the real world and duck their heads and try to avoid me. so as i do not notice their failure

Answer 3

Just go along acting like they dont bother you hunny.

Im a sophmore, but im a girl, but i have gone  through a lot. But, if it doesnt clear up and stop bothering you, tell someone!

Answer 4

alert your teacher or principal immediately

Answer 5

wow... its reallly sad (meaning hilarious) to hear that grade 9s are acting this way. soooo immature. if you have friends, then stick with them, so they dont single you out. and when they try, just tell them off. you dont deserve that kind of abuse. im mean come on! what kind of moron 14 year olds are sooo full of themselves that they can pick on people like that! highschool is hard, and truthfully you can never fully escape a** holes like them untill they grow out of it. but please, take genuine solace in the fact that every single person in the grades above them ( or at least the oldest grades) look at these guys and laugh inside about how incredibly stupid they look acting that way. seriously, when i was in highschool in the later grades, myself, and many mnay others would make fun of these losers for being so childish.  

Answer 6

dude, i had that same problem my freshman year (i'm a junior now). what you gotta do is try to make some upper-classmen friends, or at least walk around the school with 3-4 of your current friends. try to be near class rooms or the office. and if these guys are still stupid enough to try somethin, they'll end up gettin in trouble. going to the office or school resource officer is still your best bet, cause everything is anonymous. just tell the principal or whoever that these kids are harrassing you. but dont start a fight. only fight as last resort. and size means little to nothing in a fight. if they dont know how to fight, anybody could take em.

Answer 7

stand up to them

if you don't things could get worse

and if they try to hurt you just either run away or hide behind a teacher.

haha.

really that might work

Answer 8

Team up with your friends and dont take any garbage from them. Be confident and stand up to yourself. In the future they will probably be working for you anyways so feel bad for them =]  

Answer 9

umm... well there is really no way to get out of that. you can try to just ignore them if you do make a big deal then it is really just gona make it worse. So try and joke back and then maybe it will be ok.  

Answer 10

them telling every one what

Answer 11

just deal with it for now. then, later when you feel more confident, kick their @sses!!

Answer 12

Ignore them. Believe me, they sound like they are extremely immature. Immature people will continue to pick on you if you acknowledge it and let them know it annoys or bothers you. If you ignore them whenever they make fun of you, it will get boring fast and they will move on to the next person.

Also, are you in honors and AP classes? They are a god-sent for getting away from douche bags.

Another thing you might try is going to your counselor and tell them about the bullies. However, ask to remain anonymous. If they start getting disciplined, the fun for them may diminish.  

Answer 13

Kick their ***... Even if you lose you'll still get cred for you not being a wimp. and they'll probably leave you alone, they only usually pick on the people they know won't do anything about it.

Answer 14

Give it time by the end of the year they might grow up. what goes around comes around  and it will even when they are out of school .   That the fun part you never know you might be the person who has to higher them for a job :)

Answer 15

ignore them

they will get bored and go find someone else to pick on

Answer 16

If you are like kinda nerdrish

just ignore them just dont think about it.

If you arnt try to fight them back if they are freshmens too

how hurt can u get?

Answer 17

Laugh it off? Joke back with them it is your only hope!

Answer 18

don't scoop down to their level at least you'll graduate before them lol

Answer 19

Don't you know how to fight? Learn some martial arts so these kids don't bother you. It will give you some confidence so you won't be affected as much. When i was in high school nobody would mess with me even tho I'm fairly small. They probably knew I could knock them out with a roundhouse kick to the head. Seriously, 90% of the people in high school have no idea how to fight and they will just push and shove thinking that they know how to fight. Times like these teach you that nobody has your back. You need to know how to fend for yourself in this world.

Answer 20

Try to avoid them or be friends with them...if that doesn't work then try Tiger Shulman's, not to be funny or anything, it actually has good self defense classes.

Answer 21

avoid them, try to make it look like they dont bother you then they will get bored of you and pick on someone else

Answer 22

you need to stand up for yourself, and if they do tell people, tell them its because no one can get away with being an a*****e.

Answer 23

tell them there  a jerk... ahahahaha or you can work out and get buff  

Answer 24

How buff could you possibly be at that age? I bet it's nothing a brick couldn't handle.

Answer 25

You should ignore them, don't pay them any mind and in that way it won't be fun for them anymore.  

Answer 26

Ugh, I'm a freshman too and I hate it! The only thing I have going for me is I got to know the most popular senior over the summer.

The best I can tell you is to just ignore them. They'll give up eventually. If not, you can talk to a guidance counselor. If you specifically ask them not to say anything, they won't. Just ask what they think you should do.  

Answer 27

Stay Away!

:D

Lol but honestly, just stay away from them. If they insist on making fun of you just ignore them they are all going to grow up to be garbage men one day. But if they are actually getting physical i recommend going to a guidence counsillor or an upperclassman that would uh "persuade" them to stop picking on you.

-Kevin

Answer 28

Stick close to your friends, I doubt they'll mess with you when your around a lot of people

Answer 29

Just play along

Answer 30

get subscriptions cards from the raunchiest skin magazine and get them sample subscriptions.

Answer 31

Well, if I was in your shoes I would probably just get up the nerve and go up to them and ask them what's up and what's their problem.  I would be nice to them but convey the point to them that you don't care what they say. It's also good to have a friend or two with you during this.  Don't start an argument or fight but just be nice and pretend it doesn't bother you.  Again, if you have other friends with you at the time it shouldn't be that bad.  Bravely is all it takes to become friends.  You might not think you'll ever be friends with them but trust me, it could happen.  Hope this helps.