High school teen s*x?

Question

alright well im in highschool

im gonna be a sophmore like in a week cuz thats when school starts :/

but anyways im a 15 year old dude

okay well heres there deal

i had s*x with one of my good friends(not a guy lol a girl)

and shes 15 too

yes yes yes i used protection

but anyways

like when we started it was good and all

but like 5 minutes into it

i just like couldnt handle it anymore

its not like i didnt like it

its like i seriously couldnt handle it anymore

but she could

i didnt wanna tell her cuz i thought itd be embarrassing

so like we ended up doing it more

like 10 minutes later i was like dam i needa stop

so like soon we actually stopped

what im asking is

why could i barley handle it??

ive heard dudes ask this question before

but never really payed attention to it

so why can i barley handle it

and what should i do to last longer next time

Answer 1

Listen, Josh- do you want to be a daddy at 15? If you answered no, then LISTEN to what your mind is telling you and knock off the trips to the sack with your girlfriend. Condoms aren't foolproof, Josh- they can break, especially if you are at all strong or rough during s*x- and if you are like most kids your age, you probably store yours in your wallet, which is a really BAD idea. Condoms stored in a wallet get exposed to heat, cold, and moisture, all of which combine to weaken the latex they are made with and make them more likely to break during use. Does your girlfriend take the pill, Josh? If not, she needs to get on it, and DO IT NOW, or she's going to be a mommy before she's 16 years old. Neither one of you is old enough yet to have a license, much less a job, so how are you going to pay for a baby, if you should have one?? Employers don't hire kids your age with no education or experience to do much of anything, Josh- and if you get your girlfriend pregnant, then you will be required by law to pay child support and her medical expenses.Even Wal-Mart and Mickey D's don't make THAT mistake any more- it's too much of a liability for them to hire teenagers with no education or experience.  On top of this, chances are good you'll have to drop out of school- and it's a certainty that your girlfriend will too, especially once she gets past her 6th month or so of pregnancy. That means that both of you can kiss any plans you have to attend college or train for a professional career goodbye for a long time, and perhaps permanently. Does having to depend on public assistance for support sound like a fun way to live, Josh?? Welfare has limits too,you know- generally, after two years, you have to go out and get a job, or they will cut your benefit checks off for good.

Maybe it was all this stuff swirling around in the back of your head that kept you from being able to "handle" s*x. It doesn't sound to me as though you were ready to have s*x yet- you sound immature to me, and you are much too young. Your girlfriend actually sounds more mature to me than you do- and you need to get over your fears about speaking up next time you want to stop halfway through. She's not going to kill you for saying something- in fact, she'll likely be relieved that you were man enough to speak up. NO ONE has the right to force another person into sexual activity that they don't want, Josh- that's considered to be rape- and it makes no difference WHO started it. You need to learn that "no" means just THAT- N.O !! It doesn't mean MAYBE, it doesn't mean do it if you feel like it or in ten minutes, it means NO !!! Your girlfriend has just as much of a right to say NO to you as you do to her- and she has an equal right to have her wishes respected, just as you do.

Lastly, you need to be aware of a few more things before you jump in the sack again. One of these is that there is NO SAFE TIME when your girlfriend cannot get pregnant- women can even get pregnant during their periods. This is why it's imperative that you use a condom each and every time you have s*x, and that she takes the pill or uses another form of contraception, such as an IUD or a diaphragm. Also, in case you think otherwise, for many women, all it takes is ONE TIME in the sack, and they will get pregnant. Your girlfriend is most likely one of these women, so BE CAREFUL.

Enough said.

Answer 2

Simple Answer: CAUSE YOU ARE GUILTY,CAUSE YOU ARE A KID!

Answer 3

Some peeps' answers are weird!! hehe.

Ok - women are like kettles, you gotta wait a while before they heat up...guys are pretty much like those water coolers where the water comes out hot immediately!

Nothing to worry about, just remember to spend at least 20 minutes on foreplay... and try keep her away from you, in case you get too excited, then, as the one dude mentioned, practice practice practice!  Spend time masturbating, and then just before you are about to ***, give it a break, then carry on...

Also, give yourself a break - it was your first time with this girl, most guys are really excited the first time they sleep with someone, coz it's all exciting and new... you will relax the more you do it!

Also, remember that what you can do is while you are busy, just stop moving, and then kiss her passionately or something, so you get a chance to recover for a bit!

Have fun with it!

Answer 4

masterbating helps to last longer. also, there are creams and gels to help numb the p***s, delaying the ejaculation for a while. there's also condoms by trojan that help to delay ejaculation because they numb your p***s slightly, but it's not painful or unhealthy. there are pills, but you're not old enough to get a prescription lol. here are the trojan condoms i'm talking about:

http://www.trojancondoms.com/Product/Pro...

good luck!

Answer 5

if you m********e a lot, your p***s becomes desensitzed and it will take forever for you to ejaculate. ALSO, not trying to be a mom here, by you really should not be having s*x at the age of 15. that's so dangeous.  

Answer 6

I don't understand the question. Are you telling us that you couldn't handle it psychologically? Or are you telling us that you couldn't handle it physically?

Answer 7

your body could handle it, but your mind couldn't. it doesn't make you a bad person, it means that you took into account everything that could've resulted from it, just you did that during the action instead of before. if you can't handle it, don't force yourself, you will seriously regret it when you get older. how would you like if the girl you wanted to marry told you that she forced herself to have s*x to please this guy that she's not even with anymore? because if you do it again, that's exactly what it will boil down to for you.

Answer 8

sometimes you just can't help it. you have to do what you are going to do. i had a boyfriend once who had the same problem. he always lasted about five minutes and then did his thing. after a while you get used to it. if this keeps happening then i suggest trying a little oral s*x first to get her satisfied and then going at it. (and please keep using protection!! your too young to be having babies!)

Answer 9

You weren't ready.

Wait till your ready.