Ok, this is not a case of not paying child support because we pay it every month and have proof. We pay using our bank account and the bank mails her a check. We have proof tha the last payment was sent on Aug 21. She has not received it yet, so I am assuming it may be lost in the mail. Well, she is threatening to "go down to the courthouse and have them debit it so we won't forget to pay it" and while she is at is, she is just going to have them raise it too. There is no reason for her to act like this because we always pay it. She also does not have custody of them, my husband does. He is deployed to Iraq, so he let them (2 girls) go back to live with their mother but they probably won't be coming back to live with us. As of now, she has not gone to court to have custody changed but she loves to throw threats around and I have been nothing but nice to her. She also sends all her coorespondence through their 14-yr-old daughter's email account, so the child can see all of this, which I feel is very wrong. Has anyone had a similar experience? Can anyone tell us what we should do to be prepared if she does take him back to court? How can he stop her from getting child support raised? He pays $400 for 2 children and it is not even court ordered yet, the order still says she is supposed to be paying $200 per month to him but he does it because his kids stay with her. I get $400 as well from my ex every month for 3 kids. My 3 kids live with us, can and will they be considered a shield to stop her from getting child support raised very much? Any advise will be helpful. Info: Their divorce was final in South Carolina but we live in North Carolina and they now live in Tennessee.
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