His Mom Doesn't Approve That he is Dating a Black Woman, What Should I Do?

Question

I am a black and am dating a white guy and his mom is really mean to me. I don't know what to do. I get along great with my boyfriend and he readily shows his love for me, but his mom just disapproves of the whole things and it makes me so angry.

Her disapproval is one thing, but she is just so mean to me. Should I just go ahead and break up with my boyfriend. He keeps telling me that she doesn't mind, and that she is only doing that bc her husband dissapproves. What should I do?

I thought that I should mention that we are both adults (college aged) His mom won't allow me to even come over and says that mixed babies are ugly.

She didn't have a problem with me until she found out her son was serious with me. Then she started being hateful.

Answer 1

omg thats terrible i'm soo sorry....im not sure what you should do as...

i think you guys should ignore the parents and stay happy together...

Answer 2

No don't break up with him, why is that a choice, if you really loved him that wouldn't be a choice, don't think that way unless you can find better loving somewhere else..

You tell that mum, that you are what your boyfriend needs regardless of skin colour..

Take her aside and tell her, I feel you are mean to me ect.. Don't let her get her way, after all he is 18. She has no rules over your bf anymore, just guidance and wisdom... But you are first priority..

She'll try to offend you racially, thats what white racists do.  Be strong, if she still doesn't approve then, forget about her, tell your bf about her meanness.

I'd laugh if you told me she was from texas, typical southern racists.  

Answer 3

i would keep on talking to my boyfriend. i would tell him to tell his mother to calm down and i would kill her with kindness. stand your ground. dont let nobody disrespect you

Answer 4

it doesn't matter what his mom spews out... you're adults its a free country.  

Answer 5

They're serial killers!!!!!!!!!! Leave Now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 6

Theres only one way to get rid of mindless racist like his mom, and thats to fight her. I don't mean physically but mentally, stay with him and fight through it. Sooner or later she'll come to find theres not much she can do but to accept and respect your decisions.

Answer 7

If your relationship is strong and not casual, you should talk it out with your boyfriend...don't break up with him because of his mom...poor mom, she will be missing out on alot in life if that is her attitude.

Answer 8

Don't break up with him because of his ***** of a mum! As long as you guys are happy together, she is just a racist. The world would be a better place without people like her and a much better place with people like you and your boyfriend.

Oh, and your babies will not be ugly.

OH, and give that ***** 2 punches, 1 being for me.