His brother threw a condom at us!?

Question

Ok so last night i went over my boyfriend's house. WE're both 16 and we have had s*x. My boyfriend's 22 year old brother is living at home until he goes to the army and so i pretty much just met him last night. Anyways.....we were hanging out downstairs just talking and cuddling when his brother runs downstairs throws a condom at us and closes the door fast! I was like WTF. It turns out my bf told his brother all about how we have s*x and now his bf is like always thinking we want to do that when i come over. His brother is a major womanizer so he's cool with it and has our back if he ever needs to cover for us tho......but idk what to think should i be cool with this? Or should my bf not have told him?

Answer 1

I was just wondering, is the condom a used or a new one? If used one, then whose *** was in it?

Answer 2

Based on his attitude, your brother shouldn't have said anything.

What a dweeb his brother is. Throwing condoms? I bet he doesn't do too well with the ladies.

Answer 3

i don't think you should worry about this too much. i'm 16 and have had s*x with my bf, also 16. when i told my sister she completely freaked out, so its probably lucky that your bf's bother isn't too strict or things would have been way worse.

but cos you had the thought that maybe its not cool that your bf told his brother, i think you're not comfortable with it inside, and that's fine. cos there's not much you can do about it now, you should just have a serious convo with your bf to say that you wanted to keep it private, and next time he should ask you first before tellin anyone. btw be careful not to sound too upset, or else it will cause a fight.  

Answer 4

i wouldn't tell my brother/sister personally,

first off there is no need to make a fuss about this, so what if his brother knows least he wouldn't tell anyone :), so just be cool with it. take it as a joke

Answer 5

ONE.. thats really funny

Two.. maybe his brother was joking around with his younger brother guys tend to do that...

Three.. if you think he wasn't going to tell his brother your crazy.... they obviously really close..

Four.. you should be okay with it as long he isn't tell every one in the whole world that you've hooked up...

Answer 6

brothers talk/confide..

it was thoughtful of his brother to make sure you two kids stayed safe !

in some countries, s*x  at 16 is illegal !

Answer 7

Ur bf already told him so u have2 get over that but if the brother is cool and doesn't put ur biz out there and talk about how u guys have s*x it should be okay  

Answer 8

well if you told him not to tell anyone about it specifically then its not ok but its probably a goof thing that he told him and not someone else like his frineds or something because then rumors get around and if something comes up and you get pregnant or something he can help out but it really isnt a good idea to have s*x at such a young age believe me i have a son of my own and im 16 and its not a place you want to be

Answer 9

Brothers are bound to tell one another.  If he would of thrown it at me I would of thanked him and told him thanks for caring. Get him where it hurts!

Answer 10

ur bf should have not told him  LOL but thats funny

Answer 11

very thoughtful of him avoid pregnancy/aids std/hiv etc,a womaniser knows

Answer 12

You know you are to young to have s*x when you don't even have enough sense to use a condom...