His parents hate my guts!?1?

Question

me and my ex went out for 18 months...we loved eachother very much but his parents refuse to accept me..

they hate me because, im guyanese and not indian also because im half hindu and not full...

we broke up but he said we could be together but htere isnt a future in the relationship

but i feel like he doesnt give me credit and ttat he thnks that i wouldnt be able to win over his parents personality wise...

i keep asking him to talk to them or try to change there mind and his answer stays they same always " i know my parents trust me they will never accept you "

i love this guy alot moving on isnt an option its out of the question

do u guys have any possible ways i can get him to at least think about being with me until tat time comes?

soo i know that i tried at least instead of wondering wat could have happened?

Answer 1

right now u may see him as your only option but he is not, moving on is what you should do, why in the world would you be with someone that not only don't want to be with you.....and on top of everything his parents don't want you.... ufff plz girl get a life, why would you complicate your life, only for a matter of religion and color of the skin, love it goes much more then all that, true love is stronger then a rock, and ain't no mountains high enough, so plz Move On!

Answer 2

why would you be with someone who says you have no future together?  Move on.

Answer 3

If he doesn't bother talking to them about it and if he says there isn't a future in the relationship, then move on!

He doesn't seem to be interested at all.

-Julie

Answer 4

Whoa.

"I love this guy alot moving on isnt an option its out of the question"

So is your life over then? That sounds very codependent and obsessive.

He is putting his family and honesty before you. It sucks they don't accept you, but that is their culture and your must accept *that*.

You are wasting your time. His mind is made up, no sense in destroying what pride and dignity you have. Leopards do not change their spots.

Answer 5

I think that you need to just move on and leave this boy alone if he keep saying that  his parents don't accept you and he's not going to have your back then maybe he's not worth it!

Answer 6

im white and im dating an indian. when his dad found out we were datting he said break up wit her. shes no good. and he took my boyfriends computer and cell phone. i guess thats jus the wear they are. im about to break up with him becuase his dad hates me and his friends are talkig bad about me and hes believing it. we have no future together either and i wish we could becuase hes sweet and cute. i guess thats just the way they are. they want there sons with someone thats just like them.

anyway good luck

Answer 7

There is no future with a guy that revolves his life around his parents choices for him. The relationship wont work. if they have not accepted you after 18 months, chances are slim that it will ever happen and your BF is all about them and what they choose obvioulsy.

It would be different if he didnt care what they thought of who he was with, but he does so you are going to have to move on, as hard at it seems to do at this point.

Maybe one day he will realize his life is his, and not his parents.