Hmmmm? Could you? I dont think i could!!? :D?

Question

Ok i know this is not the right section for this question but i want to get a point of view from mothers and wives.

Has anyone seen the show Big Love? If so...

*What is your view on Polygamy?

*Ok i know the whole compound side of it is weird and scary...but how the main family lives seems ok... I mean as long as everyone is in consent and there is no underage marriage...should they be left alone? Able to live there lives?? Right? I think so...

I'M NOT A Polygamist! ha ha I'm just curious as to what mothers and wives think? I mean could YOU share your husband?

Answer 1

I'm a mother.

HE thought it was okay to share himself and was irresponsible. I found out when I was diagnosed with something only he could have given me because he had been careless. That wasn't the only thing he brought home. You can just imagine how I felt when I realized that the whole family's health was being jeopardized.

You can probably tell that I am against this type of arrangement. NOBODY has the right to jeopardize someone else's life or health for ANY reason.

Answer 2

I watched the first show and what got me thinking is, how is this any different from a man or woman who has children with more than one person? I know people who got divorced and then remarried and had more children and that's not what I'm talking about. What I'm talking about is people like my daughters Great Grandma who had 9 kids with 8 different men (she died of AIDS. No surprise) In Big Love, the husband wasn't technically married to all three woman (by law). Another thought is, what about couples who are into the whole 'swinger' lifestyle? Basically, people live somewhat like that everyday in one way or another and it's not considered illegal or even wrong to some people. In my opinion, polygamy is absolutely wrong and so are many other lifestyles that are similar. You can't point your finger at people who believe in plural marriage while you've had five kids with five different men and your doing 3 ways with your boyfriends best friends husband, etc.

Answer 3

I wouldn't be able to do it. I love my husband too much and I wouldn't want to share him.  

Answer 4

nope im way to jealous, it wouldnt work for me. If I caught mine cheating I told him he would have the worlds most expensive Harley Davidson wind chime.