Holiday help!!?

Question

5 month ago one of my freinds asked me to come to france with her for 10 days, for free. they own a house over there, all i needed was my passport. about 2 month ago she asked if id mind if she went to jamica with her other freind, instead of france with me, i told her it was her descion, but she could tell i was upset with her, she decided to go to jamaca, so i cancelled my holidays at work, a few days later she said she'de go to france, because she felt bad. So i told work and they gave me the holidays back, but now im unsure if i acctualy want to go with her because since then iv found more out about the holiday e.g 13 hour drive, long walks, a 6 month baby going & the house is in middle of the countryside, to me this sounds like the worst holiday ever So now i dont no if to go, me and my freind arnt as close as we use to be. I think id mis home, mis my boyfreind!!!!! & i wouldnt enjoy the holiday. I could tell her work wouldnt give me the holiday back, so i cant go? what shal i do?

Answer 1

why don't you just come to france???

i mean it's not like going to Irak or something !!

if the house is really lost in the country : enjoy the silence and rest for 10 days !

by the way I don't believe the fact that you'll be far from everything...

Plus, you said you aren't close anymore with your friend... it can be a way to spend some time together and speak and do things that you no longer have time to do...

Think about the thousands of people who wish to come and will never be able to because of the price it costs... you, have nothing to pay !!!

Answer 2

Sorry Brookbbe, but she never thought of you when she changed her plans. Be very careful when you make your decision. Baby sitter, housemaid, or friend? Which one do you think she wants?.

I dont mean to be unkind, but I detect mild dyslexia in your writing. She may be using you. Thinking you be handy to have around.

Just be CAREFUL.

Answer 3

GO TO FRANCE!! It's a once-in-a-lifetime chance to get to go there for free!! Whoever you are with, you'll enjoy it as long as you're ready to explore. It's impossible not to have fun there! Anyway it's just 10 days... not even 2 weeks, I'm sure you'll get by without your boyfriend. I know this site that has tips on what to do to make the most out of your vacation. Check it out. It can help. the site is socialtravellersite (dotcom)

Answer 4

For goodness sake tell her the truth that you do not want to go!!!!!! You have got other plans? You do not have to justify yourself.