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Homecoming problem..i really need help..?

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ok so this is my problem, im going to homecoming with my best friend and her friend. her friend already has a date, and my friend pretty much has a date already. i dont have a date. and im going to their homecoming i dont go to their school. i dont know any guys at their school. and at my school i dont like any guys right now and theres not any guy i would consider either. i just dont want to feel left out cause ill feel like im by myself while theyre with their dates.

homecomings not till october 4.

i dont know what to do, can anyone please help.

thanx so much if you can!

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  1. Is there another friend who doesn't have a date you can bring along?  Or maybe you have a single guy friend who wouldn't mind you bringing him?

    If October 4th rolls around and you still are alone, I would privately ask your friends that when you all arrive at the dance if they could introduce you to some people they know.  It is their homecoming, after all, so they should know the people there.  If your friends don't do that, gather your courage and introduce yourself to people!  Find one or two people who seem lonely and sit by them, and say this:

    "Hi, my name's [you're name].  I came with [friend's full name], but she's busy with her date, and I need to find a bathroom.  Could you show me where one is?"

    Most likely the person will offer to walk you to the bathroom, and then you'll have ample time to strike up a conversation with them, and maybe even make a new friend.

    Of course, it doesn't hurt to look gorgeous at the dance.  Guys will definitely turn their heads when a mysterious, pretty new girl walks into the room.  Just make sure you seem confident.  Everyone loves a confident, friendly person.

    I wish you luck--don't' give up on trying to find a date!  Perhaps someone from your church, sports team, or a neighboor would like to go with you.  You never know until you ask!

    Hope I helped!


  2. Why are you going to your friend's homecoming if she has a date??

  3. If you're allowed to bring another friend to homecoming. If you don't like anyone else or if you can't bring a friend (or a brother) go alone and live with it (sorry) or just skip it. I would bring a friend

  4. hang out with them and there friends from school so maybe you'll me some people there so when you do go even if you don't have date you'll still have people to hang out with

  5. ask your friends they can help you find a date from that school for you..

    haha my homecoming is oct 4th too

    (:

  6. Hey its the perfect time to meet someone!  Maybe your friend will introduce you to some people!  And if you start to feel left out confront your friend im pretty sure she will understand!  Just have Faith and Good Luck! Be yourself!

  7. well there was a similar problem with me!! But what you could do is try to get involved in and talk to people you haven't met. Try to grab attention, and if thats not what you want then just mingle around. if your soooo botherd then y dont u make some excuses on that day if its possible?! im sure your mates will understand and you wont feel left out. =)

  8. Okay, there are two ways to look at this situation:  1) you can look at like you are going to be a fifth wheel and just not go, since it is not even your school, or 2) you can go without a date and potentially meet the guy of your dreams.  You choose.  Either way, everything will be okay.  Good luck!

  9. thats what friends are for ask your friends dates if they have any friends that need a date i m going to have to say with how many kids in highschool theres one that would love to have a date and eventhough its hard for kids to belive theres nothen wrong with going alone who knows you might be able to steal one anyway good luck

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