Honestly how many guys do you know that give a d**n what happens to their unborn child?

Question

My ex is just frontin that's all. He knows I'm happy and my boyfriend terrel loves me. He doesn't care about this baby. he just wants to see me unhappy. He already has a girlfriend. It's my body my choice. Just cause I smoke a little weed doesn't mean anything. I found a study done in Jamaica and the women there smoked weed while they were pregnant and the babaies turned out even better than the ones who didn't. Now honestly how many guys do you know that actually give a d**n what happens to their unborn child. Exactly zero. Most of them want to get rid of it. That's the first thing that usually pops into their mind.

Answer 1

Most men do care about what happens to their unborn child. Only pieces of sh.it like the one you're talking about don't care what happens to their unborn child. Don't generalize all men just because you dated one that was an @ss. Stop being so bitter.

Also, smoking pot during pregnancy can affect the baby negatively. The biggest problem associated with smoking anything during pregnancy is low birth weight or premature delivery. And a study done in Jamaica lacks creditbility. They don't have the same medical technology that we do here in the US.

Answer 2

EVERY guy I know cares about his unborn child! You might know some who are losers, but most guys DO care.  And, not only should you be taking care of you child, you should be taking care of yourself.  You should be drug-free and eating the most healthy food you can.  Your ex is right to be worried about his baby.  When it comes to a pregnancy, you might get a lot of advise, but you should listen to it if it's good advise.  

You and your new bf need to read ACTUAL pregnancy books to do what's best for the baby.  Don't rely on small scale individual studies.  Get your new bf involved in the baby too.  A good book to start with is "A Girlfriend's Guide to Pregnancy"  It's more modern and fun.  Another good one it "What To Expect When You're Expecting"

Even go to pregnancy websites.  Babycenter.com is great and will give you week by week updates on baby.   Any guy who is involved in this will want what's best for baby.  I bet your new bf would say the same things as you ex if you gave him a chance to say them.  Sure he wants you to be happy, but I bet he wants what's best for baby too.  

(Theguys I know want to keep their baby...even if it was unexpected...)

Answer 3

some people- such as yourself probably shouldn't even be having children.  you are disgusting.

Answer 4

You might have something if Jamaica was one of the G8 countries.

If you don't know what the G8 is, I rest my case.

http://www.g8.gc.ca/members-en.asp

Answer 5

Honestly I can't believe you would post a question asking if its ok to smoke weed....WHILE YOU ARE PREGGERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Did you not learn anything in schoool...or are you still in school.  

And yeah..most men I know care about their babies...whose baby is it anyways...your ex's or your boyfriends....you point out that he's ALREADY got a GF well HELLO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  You have a boyfriend...Duhh