Honeymoon? how does that all work?

Question

so just out of curiosity.. how does this all work? wedding's over..yata yata.. then, we get to the place we are staying one night at till we fly tommorrow, and when we get there, am i suppose to let him help me take off my wedding dress ha ha?? or do i by myself in the bath room then slip somthing on s**y on?

same with honeymoon days, how do i make all this flow right lol... ? we have fun at the beach yata yata, we come back and ..?

Answer 1

Just let things happen... you'll know what to do as soon as you get into the room... relax and don't over think your alone time...

Answer 2

dont worry friend.be relax.it is sure honeymoon will definately work.do u know february 2008 only we went to honey moon for canada,Usa,switzerland,& uk.hotel management only arrange beautiful room for newly weddign couples.after my wedding reception next day only we went for our honeymoon to canada first.so our wedding night was happened in canada only. but i weared reception dress only.my hubby leaves my dresses.so romantically.later he take on his hands & put on bed rest of the things secreat!!!! whenever we went for see palces in that place also we romantically moved.specially in beach i was also weared beach dress after playing in sea some time thr also we donr romance.no problem.in room also i weared so s**y dresses daily night we involved in s*x.it helps to understand much.some time morning also!!!! i never used to slip s**y style.daily night my hubby leave my dresses so romantically woth his sweet sweet kisses.so enjoy u r honeymoon dont worry be happy

Answer 3

Some women take off the wedding dress during the reception when it's close to being over. It's really up to you.  Don't worry about the honeymoon really.

Answer 4

Huh? I can work any way you want it to work. Chances are, you will be so tired after the wedding, you will go right to sleep - and it's a really, really bad idea to schedule the flight for the day after, anyway - you will be tired and (possibly) hung-over.

Answer 5

If you tell the hotel where you are staying one night that it's your wedding night, they usually provide champagne.  Your new husband should pick you up and carry you into the room.  Then just relax.  Have a toast to each other.  Get comfortable, ask him to help you out of your dress.  But, you'd have to lug your dress around with you on your honeymoon?  Maybe you should change into something else before you go to your room, and leave your dress behind, have someone take it home for you after you change at the reception or something.  Lots of brides do that.  Just slip into a nice s**y dress and off you go!

Answer 6

This is a hilarious question to me- nothing wrong with it, actually, thanks for asking it- it's something I've wondered myself. It just seems so awkward. I told myself I'm not having s*x on the first night I'm married, because I'm going to be thinking in my head that everyone's at home going "I know what she's doing..."

Answer 7

If you think wearing the dress will be to difficult to manage on your wedding night, an old tradition that I frankly love, is it change out of your wedding dress at the reception site, get into cute traveling clothes and leave like that. Entrust your dress to your mom or one of your bridesmaids.

Answer 8

During s*x continually yell YATA YATA YATA!!!  Yada is the (word)Wow he b gots himself a smart one. Do whatever comes naturally

Answer 9

If you start planning every detail it's not going to be fun.  Just let whatever is going to happen...happen.

Answer 10

haha omgsh i think about this all the time.. im scared to get married. lol im already thinking about it and im only 17.  im always like.. oh gosh.. do i have to do that on the honey moon..it just seems weird that you have to. but i guess you dont, from what other people have said on here. so i guess im not lol. id be freaked out

Answer 11

It sounds to me like you are under an unusual amount of self-imposed pressure.  My advice to you is to take a deep cleansing breath and slowly exhale.

What you do separately and what you do together both depend upon what works best for the two of you as newlyweds.  While it is true that in many heterosexual relationships, the male is the one who "takes charge" and makes the moves, etc., you should not interpret that to mean that you have to be entirely passive either sexually or in terms of expressing your feelings and/or preferences.  If you are not feeling particularly s**y and are not into things and you slipping into your s**y lingerie does not seem to help matters,  the right thing to do would be to let your spouse know that you are really not at this moment into things; and prefer that the two of you take things at a slower pace.  As time passes, you will discover that marriage, all aspects of the same, takes a good deal of compromise; and that true mutual love, while a requisite, is not the only thing necessary to make a marriage work.

Answer 12

Yes you should slip into something s**y for your night of passion then get on with the hol. When your home everything returns to normal so make the most of the honey moon.

Answer 13

what my cousin did was after the reception they had her throw the flowers out the sun roof/moonroof of the car as the drove away...then when bascially everyone left, the drove back (drove around for a hwile and came back)

then they changed and got everythign they needed and left for their hotel

i liked that idea lol

Answer 14

i took my wedding dress off on my own and put on my lingerie - without his help.  

same with when we were on our honeymoon, when we were getting ready for bed, i'd go in to the b athroom and put on my lingerie and them come out of the bathroom to him.

Answer 15

Honeymoon? It is much sweeter honey in the moon? Ah.. haaa...ooooh!!! Sounds delicious!

Oh yes, do all what you can and make yourself happy...

Answer 16

I don't know about everyone else but we got blitzed at the reception and ended up too tired to do anything but go to sleep! You have the rest of your life together to do the deed over and over so don't think this is the only time you get to be alone. Just have fun and enjoy yourselves. Let nature take it's course and do what feels right.

Answer 17

Well in my mind the grooms family is supposed to pay for the honeymoon. We went to Spain, it was lovely.

Answer 18

Don't believe the pizza guy when he tells you you have 45 minutes before the pizza is going to arrive... I swear he was there in about 5 min!

Answer 19

I'd ask him...do you want to help me take off my dress, or have me change into something s**y in the bathroom?  He'll let you know what's s**y for him.  As far as the rest of the honeymoon days, no need to worry, just have fun, laugh, smile, and slip something s**y on whenever you feel like it :)

Answer 20

If you are staying at the reception until almost everyone is gone, just change into something there. Less hassle with trying to get in the car with your dress on again! But if there will still be a lot of people there and you don't want to do that...... then, well I HAD to have him help me take the dress off since it was a corset back and there's no way I could have taken it off myself! So, he unlaced it for me, then I went to the bathroom and put on my lingerie I'd bought for the night. :)

After the first night, try not to wait until you are both in bed for the night or whatever then go put on lingerie..... Hide it in the bathroom between the towels or something and just go in there and he'll think you're, ya know, going to the bathroom, but really change clothes! (:

Answer 21

let every thing happens smooth

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Answer 22

If you don't know that, you must be pissed or on something.

Answer 23

don't stress...it will all happen naturally...don't try and over plan it because if you do as a woman I now that you will be upset if it doesn't go the way you planned...

Have a great honeymoon and don't cram to much into your time together...just enjoy it...the honeymoon is one of the best times you will have together! Good luck...

Answer 24

don,t wait when both r in a mood and start to kiss, l**k, twist, pinch, bite, pressing in the hands, removing covering of other side, make to response same time , talking s**y action, ...and at last penetrating sting in the well of love. dip, and out dip and out .... faster and faster and fastest with a sweet inner voice of s**y music. i think it is better not to late to make it more good . first sight and first attack should be done without losing a second of time.

be two in one by filling vacant place with your enlarged part.

time is running fat so make hay while sun shines

Answer 25

Oh honey, there wont be any time for all that sweet seduction! Most couple end up tackling eachother with kisses as soon as they enter the room!

My husband and I couldnt even wait for the hotel room. We snuck off to the bridal suit (where I got dressed in my gown) and did it right then and there. Then when we got to the hotel and entered the room, we each still had a bag in our hands and didnt even make it to the bed.

Just remember to relax and have fun, the night will take you where it wants.

Answer 26

Go with the flow and don't set too high of expectations.  Alcohol at the reception, exhaustion from running around all day, after reception-receptions... all of those things come into play.  As fairy-tale as it is to be intimate on your wedding day, it isn't the end of the world.  In fact, you have your entire life together, as well as the honeymoon to wear yourself out.

Answer 27

You do exactly what works for you in that moment.  If you're dying to get that dress off & get busy then by all means let him take it off & just do it.  If you want it more romantic then set up the room ahead of time.  Have some candles ready, some glasses & put your champagne on ice.  Leave your lingerie ready to go & when you get back to the room create your mood & change in the restroom for a grand entrance.

As far as the rest of the days just do whatever strikes your fancy.  We didn't even have s*x on our honeymoon but we've been together a while.  We were just exhausted & happy at the same time.  We were more interested in parasailing, taking pictures, snorkeling & crashing out LOL!

Don't put pressure on yourself to dress up for every romantic encounter.  It's too forced.  When you've spent the day at the beach you can go back to your room & have whatever fun you want or shower together & then do what you will.  You'll figure it out.  My husband & I just looked at each other & said "we are pathetic" and laughed then fell asleep.

Answer 28

if you can wear something s**y under your dress and then let him be suprised when you or him take it off

Answer 29

Are you kidding? Do you want sexual details or what? I'd try renting a few movies that have weddings and honeymoons in them, if you need choreography.

Didn't you ask this same question before?

Answer 30

my best advice to you would be to just go with the flow. do whatever seems right at the time...and if you make a mistake, he'll probably just think its cute lol.

Good luck =)

Answer 31

doesn't matter, nothing is written in stone and it's your day so you do whatever you want! you'll be so tired you'll ask him jsut to get the d**n thing off you hehe trust me ..i was so exhausted and my husband was so drunk so the s*x wasn't the greatest but i insisted lol we actually missed our honeymoon because both are dogs got sick so we had to use the money to fix em up but we are finally going on our honeymoon over a year later next month :) we are going to thailand and we are just going to relax, go on tours, ride elephant and just enjoy the experience!! you don't have to do anything you don't want to!! :)