Honeymoon in Aug 08 at a Sandals Resort... which for us?

Question

This is both our second marraige and we have 5 children together. We are both in our mid 30's and looking TO GET AWAY. We love high energy, but also want to relax as well at times. We love to dance and swim... activites of all kinds. Plus I would like to enjoy some culture of the area. We are think Jamaica.... as it seems they are the most affordable. Just not sure which one in that area. I heard Montego Bay is quite noisy with the airplanes overhead and I heard Ocho Rio's is a far drive. Those seem to be the most high energy resorts in the area. Any feelings?

Ohhhhhh I can't wait!!!!!!!