Hormonal clock??

Question

I know this topic has been brought up before...but I am delving into it again.

I am a 28 y/o mother of 3. After my third child, I had a tubal and am now regretting it. My husband and I talked about not having any more children, but now not only am I dreaming of having another baby, but I keep having this feeling of wanting to be pregnant again. I know that a tubal can be reversed, but everyone just thinks that I am being hormonal. So has anyone else ever felt this AND have any of you ladies had your tubal reversed or know of someone who did??

Answer 1

I am a 26 year old mother of 2, and had a tubal right after my son was born. I, too, regret having my tubal, because in the long run, I had to have a hysterectomy, and maybe I could have had just one more child. Its not just you.

Answer 2

I don't know about being hormonal, i think its just being a mother.  We all want to have children and have a natural instinct to being a mother, to care and love a child. I think its just when your babies start to grow up, you still just want a baby around, even though its alot of work, we can't just help to want to hold these precious little babies in our arms.  I have 3 kids too, and i also think about having another one but i know that 3 is just fine, but i would be more than happy to have another one.  I always talk to my husband about it, but i have my tubes tied so i don't think its gonna happen anytime soon.   But alot woman when they get around a baby says oohh look how cute he is, and usaully says' i miss or wish i had a baby.  So i think its just part of our nature to want to have lots and lots of babies.  So know your not alone out there.