Horrible First day of school!!!???? plz take time to read all..?

Question

ok today was my first day of school and it went all wrong see english was fine and then s.s i have a new teacher and hes weird but in his class we had to get partners and i had to have this kid who had a huge scab on his leg that he was picking and we got to pick our partners and i had no friends in that class all the girls there are popular and wont even talk to me and then on to algebra i have the same teacher as last year and she hates me and sat me at the fornt of the room and then the guys that i like sits as far away from me as possible and now where on to science where we get to pick our seats well none of my friends are in that class either so i had to sit alone and i heard people taling about what a freak i am but im not anyway where on to lunch whcih during lunch i had to find my friends which i finall did when lunch was over and now band well band was fine we got a new clairenet player and i sit by her but shes nice anyway now where on to gym which none of my freinds where in either so in gym when she gave us 30 min to talk while she did something i was alone while everybody else was talking ot their friends the the last five min this girl came and talked to me and i tried to talk to some people but i couldnt cuz all of them are popular so they kind ignored me and then well last is FCS or home ec and there i had no friends but your groups are picked so it was fin and i frogot to meantion that my locker wouldnt open so i didnt have the right combo and so i had to carry my bag around while nobody else did so i looked like and idiot what do i do make tomorrow better????????????????????????

Answer 1

What I do is recall difficulty that someone else has had and it makes my worries seem petty.  For instance, my grandfather was kicked out of the US, was in the Czech Army when Hitler invaded, lived under n**i occupation for seven years, then Soviet occupation for two, before he stowed away aboard a Pan Am flight (thanks to a friendly pilot).  Then he had to fight for years to get his American citizenship back and didn't see his wife and two kids for five years.  THAT sucks.  Having a wet spot on the front of your pants in HS is NOTHING compared to that.  If you don't have a family story like that, try talking to a war veteran or an ER nurse - their stories and the suffering they've endured or witnessed will put all in perspective.  

Besides, your life will change when you're out of HS - it's like getting a new deal in a hand of cards and you can lose all the baggage that's hung with you for years and move on...

Answer 2

WOW that sux im really sorry but heres my advice

be outgoing talk to everyone until you make a connection

give the kid with the scab a big bandage and make him put it on

hopefully the seats will get switched and ull sit next to the boy you like or at least somebody thats nice

and the ppl that called you freak talk to them and show them that your not

wishing you luck

- House MD

Answer 3

try not to worry so much about what other people think of you, other people will always have some negative jerky thing to say....don't listen to them if they are putting you down then they are not confident with themselves, also its kind of normal to not always be in classes with your friends...as you go into higher and higher grades you will see that this is common, but it gives you an opportunity to make friends along the way, you will make new ones and lose some old ones but its the friends that stick with you through thick and thin that are the important ones....i didnt fit in either in middle/high school while fitting in is important, it isn't as important as doing well in school, even though it doesnt seem that way.. try your best and.don't worry you will be okay

Answer 4

people are so frustrating. im really sorry!!!

ill pray!

but those girls...they won't likely change...

im sorry. you just have to realize that you have to be yourself.

socialize and don't ever feel under the popular girls!

i don't know what else to do, but say you're not the only one who is a good person in your school!

you'l find someone. it sucks now, but things get better. all those people who would dare make fun of someone who is in pain, and embarressed liek that, they arent worthy of much. they need to grow up and learn to help people out. at my school everyone would be all over helping you with ur combo and talking and "in ur face" but not in a mean way...

you just have to remember how much greater you are than them, because  they cant even realize when someone is in need of a freind. and its sad really, b/c when one comes along, they won't be the ones to notice. you will.

and you'll end up with a great friend, a great guy, and things will improve.

just rememeber to be positive.

so you're stuff flew all over the ground...

maybe you can look all sad and innocent and the nice hott guy will start helping you out...

or maybe you can pick them up and continue on to class, strongly. people will notice, and they'll be jealous you can control your emotions...i know those others girls would flip and be like "uh! u made me drop my stuff! geez!!!!" and someone would help....but thats what they want. attention...im sorry you had such a sorry day...

maybe tomroow will be better, maybe not, but please be positive.

it changes everything.

<3

xo

hope i helped.

Answer 5

I take your school has no English Grammar & Composition class.

How to Make School Better in One Easy Lesson: Get Over It.

Answer 6

Just forget about EVERYTHING that happened today,okay?

For your S.S class Im assuming that is Social Studies:

Don't focus on his weirdiness.lol. Don't worry about not having friends in that class for the first day.You'll eventually talk to somebody, and start becoming friends. Don't worrry about the the "popular" girls.Once your out of high school you being "popular" wont matter. Im sure there is at least one girl/boy in that class, that's just the opposite.

Now for Algebra:

Try to be so nice to the teacher, don't disrespect her.Say good morning/good afternoon/ good bye each time you see here.Basically say a greeting. For the guy you like, maybe he didn't do it on purpose? Try to say hi to him tomorrow, and see his reaction.

Now for Science:

You will make friends, its only the first day. People will always talk about you, about anybody.Don't let it bother you. Yes, sometimes it will hurt.But its something called karma, what they give out they get back.

Lunch && Band Class seemed to go good.

For gym:

Don't worry about the popular, stuck up girls.Go talk to that girl who talked to you for the last five minutes.

For FCS:

You'll make friends, once again.And that's great that you're groups were already picked.

For the locker thing:

Ask somebody to help you, a student and teacher whatever you feel more comfortable with.I know when I got my locker the first try I couldn't get it.But once you do, it's like magic its easy.

Umm.just in case you can't find somebody to help you, I would suggest getting a tote bag. It's cute && it carries your books.

Your second day of school will be fine.

Answer 7

Scabs were made for picking. If the popular girls are to stuck up to talk to you, then they won't make good friends. If the teacher hates you stare her down and make weird noises in class. It'll make the other kids laugh and you'll have instant friends. The guy you like probably doesn't like you back and your too young to be dating anyways. If you hear people talking about what a freak you are and staring at you, start picking your nose. Sitting alone is never a bad thing, after all your at school to learn. The new girls make the best friends, they're just as scared as you are. Fresh meat. Again if the popular kids ignore you, who the h**l wants to be popular anyways. A great way to start a conversation is to walk up to anyone and ask if they've seen your pet snake. If you have no friends in your class you can either sit down and shut up or talk to someone! If your locker won't open go to the front office and complain. Only the cool kids carry their bags around. Tomorrow is a new day.

But then again, what do I know. I'm a loser!