Horrible friend problem?

Question

Hey. So I just started a new school but two of my best friends came with me. One of them and I have been having a huge problem. We both like the same guy. It's not a huge deal but what is is that she's lying to everyone about me and telling people I like him. It's just not right. I have no idea why she's doing this to me. She's only told one person I like him so far and she's lying mostly to her mom...(i know right) She's saying how I'm like not letting her have any friends and not letting her like this guy. It's ridiculous. She's acting totally fake and shallow. She's trying sooo hard to be popular that she's forgotten her one real friend. Now I don't care if she's friends with other people, i've never been possessive like that. And I'm not really worried about us liking the same guy. But anyways...what the heck do I do??

Answer 1

She may be having feelings of jealousy why not try and have a chat with her about it.

Answer 2

Ask the guy out you get him

She leaves you alone

End of storyy..

& shes not a real friend :(

Shes fake

Answer 3

if you value your friendship, say she can have the boy. if you don't, ask the boy out!!!

Answer 4

Let her go for awhile and experience what you are going to have from now on.  PAIN.  It is tuff I know I went to three hs growing up.

You have to concentrate on ignoring her for a while and establishing your grades and making future plans for college.  Make your own friends and get involved with the new school activities.  

You will hurt however she may come around.  

Anyway the bottom line is that I can tell you girl, you have seen the character your friend has.  Does that the kind of person you want around you as a friend?

DFF

Answer 5

well you need to sit down with her and have a seriuos talk. point out to her what she is doing. but dont accuse her and get all mad and stuff. that wont work lol this is something you should say in your convorsation- when you tell ppl that im not letting you have any friends, and not letting you like the same guy as me, it makes me feel like you dont want to be friends any more. and i want to just cut out friendship, but i want to work on this w. you since we have been friends for a long time.

- and when you lie to others about me, it makes me think that you only care about what others think of you.

and you could ask her why she is lying to her mom.

and i mean if she doesn't want to be friends, and just cares what other ppl think of her, then this friendship isn't worth it. dont waste your energy on drama.

good luck!

Answer 6

still try to be friends with her. i know how it feels i have the same problem but what I do is still be friends with her. I know it isn't fun. but if you don't what to be friends that is okay she is being quite rude to you. i hope this helps.

Barbie

Answer 7

Shank her the first chance you get.

Answer 8

distance urself from her =T.

dont care too much about the gossip. i mean if u have to confront, u  have to confront. but be civil about it.

try to be an acquaintance w/ her, but don't go out w/ her or do friend things as much anymore. make sure u develop friends on ur own and people will believe whoever they want to believe. if they find u to be a nice, trustworthy person, chances are tey'll just ignore her and thikn of her as a gossip . good luck!

Answer 9

well guys usaully know when girls do stuff like this. so just back off the guy, and let her go obsessive over him. he might like it for awhile but chances are h**l get sick of her quickly. guys like girls that are honest. and once he sees that ugly side of her, h**l get rid of her. and as for the mom thing. im just gonna say, stay clear of her. because if her mom gets involved it might mean her mom might call your mom to "fix" the problem, so just try and drift away from her, and you get new friends. like dont cut her off completley but just be a distant friend till she gets her head on straight

Answer 10

sit down with the mom and friend and get to the bottom of it. tell the truth, and think that you are the right one weather she admits or not.

Answer 11

Get a way from her for a bit , She'll soon realize that her efforts to be popular aren't working ..and she'll crawl back to her real friends. right now shes trying to use any expense to be popular ..even if it includes making her own friends look bad. If I was a guy I would tell you - Bros Before Hoes , which she clearly doesn't follow .

I hope she comes around

hope this helps

Answer 12

Stay true to yourself. Don't lie about her back, but also let her know it's not ok, and true friends don't do that c**p! If you both like him, make a packed that whoever he likes back the other person will not be mad. Guys come and go, but a true friend lasts forever. Hope this helps