Horse share problem?

Question

I have been sharing a horse for a year, there was no contract signed, I have bought the horse lots of stuff and the owner still owes me £60.

The issue I have is that she's moving the horse and it is too far for me to travel. She's very selfish and hasn't even asked me if I'd still be able to share the horse. I have found a horse alot closer to where I live and I want to stop the current share.

How shuld I tell the owner that I no longer want to do it?

What should I say?

I'm picking all my stuff up on Sat and she's moving him sometime next week.

Answer 1

Tell the owner that the horse she is moving is too far for you to travel and you have found another horse.  Good luck!

Answer 2

I think you should tell her the truth;

You don't want to continue sharing this horse because she is moving too far away for you to travel, and you have found another horse who lives close enough for you to share.

Sounds like she's a rlly rude person! Don't worry if you hurt her feelings too much, she doesn't care if she hurts yours. So just tell her straight up how you feel, get your stuff and walk away :p But, oh! Don't forget to collect the £60 lol.

Good luck!

EDIT* Good luck! The new person you are sharing with sounds perfect! And she doesn't sound like she would rip you off lol. I hope she will be much better than the other person!

Answer 3

tell her that you can't keep sharing the horse if she move it and say you have found a horse that lives closer to u. ask the person for the £60 and tell her the truth about how u feel.

telling the truth will be better and u will feel like a weight has been lifted.

hope this helps.

Answer 4

you should tell her that she's moveing to far away and that you found another horse to look after and that you must stop the share.

Answer 5

Just tell her and do it. She's moving the horse too far away for you to travel and that changes everything. I hope she pays you what she owes you but if she wants to be a stinker then I doubt there is anything you can do.

Answer 6

Simply tell her the truth: you can't continue to share the horse because he will be too far away. It sounds like she's been selfish and rude to you, so I wouldn't worry too much about hurting her feelings.

Answer 7

Don't feel too upset with the owner of the horse you are currently sharing. The  situation seems to have worked out better for you anyways. She gets to move her horse for whatever reasons she may have and you get to share a horse closer to you and more like what you are looking to ride. It seems to me that the situation works out ok. Considering the fact that there was no contract between you and this owner there should be no problem with you not sharing their horse anymore and with her moving the horse to another location. Simply explain the situation with her and be truthful. You don't want to leave things on bad terms and you'll feel better about the whole transaction. Sit down and discuss the whole situation with the owner  and ask for your money at the same time. Unfortunately if she decides not to reimburse you for the money she owes there really isn't a lot you can do about it. I hope this helps and good luck with your new horse!

Answer 8

i think u should just say i am very sorry but you are moving your horse too far away so i am going too share an other horse but i still love you re's so 1 day a month i may pop to see it hope my answer is good Alice xxxxx

Answer 9

Considering the fact that she didn't consult you to discuss her move before she decided to do it, and the fact that she owes you money, I don't think you should have any problem telling her that you won't be sharing the horse any longer.  How to get my money back would be my concern.  And based on my experiences with people, you may just have to kiss that money goodbye!

Answer 10

get the other horse

Answer 11

when you go pick up your items, i would say thank you for sharing your horse with me i had a nice time. insinuating that you will no longer be sharing the horse with her. if she says YEP nice knowing ya bye!! you know she obviously doesn't care weather you continuing sharing the horse or not. if she says what do you mean? explain to her that the horse is moving to far away for you continue your obligation.

dont forget to ask about your money!

Answer 12

she sounds like a cow and i know someone very similar!

if i were you i would say to her:

i think the horse is a bit far away for me to get too so i dont think i can carry on sharing him.

then go and pick up your stuff and if she nags at you just say its not your fault but your parents said they wont take you there because its too far away.

Then dont phone her again, dont pay her and go and loan the other horse.

:D