Ok, so i am pretty much just here to whine and vent a little because i am a pretty anal person (although i have been working on it over the past five years due to being married) and i know exactly how when and where i like to do things. My sister in law and her three children are staying with me right now because she is going through a divorce. Now mess doesn't bother me (anymore) since i have two young girls of my own, i can handle that. I can even cope with the issues i have had to since she has been here, however i would never ever tell her these things bother me because she is going through a very very hard situation and that would just be rude, i guess i just need the opinions of strangers, to somehow make me feel better....i really don't know why i felt to post this. Any how, today is laundry day and i have all of my loads downstairs and ready to go. Of course i am done for the night as it is 10pm. When i got down there is afternoon the stuff that i had dried early that morning was on top of the dryer and she had some stuff in the dryer in its place. Ok no big deal, it was my neices stuff and i know that she feels a little awkward. Well i took it out, folded it and set it in her room. Well here i am in bed, its ten at night, and she brings up my scrubs and says "where do you want these?" and plops them on the bed! THAT I WAS ALMOST ASLEEP IN! So i said right there is fine, and she had to go up two levels to get them to my room. I asked her if she was doing laundry and she said yes just a small load so i asked her to please leave the washer empty so i could use it tomorrow and she said ok, now she seemed a little embarassed when she said it so i think maybe she realized that i was slightly irritated...i didn't mean to sound rude and i don't think i did, maybe a little groggy. It's just that i could never imagine doing that to someone! taking all their laundry out and piling it somewhere..i mean there was a laundry basket at the bottom of the dryer when she put clothes on the dryer this afternoon and just now when she brought them all the way up to me!! ugghh!!! Anal or not i think this situation would bother anyone....and i right to be slightly annoyed or am i just being to anal????
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