How 2 tell my girl shes goin 2 fast?

Question

Ok so im 13 and shes 13 but we were talkin and we got on da subject of s*x and now she keeps tryin 2 pressure me into having it. Im tellin her i want 2 wait til im married. But she's still doing it how do i tell her that i really dont want 2?

Answer 1

If you don't want to then don't.  Its your life not hers.  If she can't except that, then she probably isn't right for you.  You guys are to young.  Stay strong and wait until your married.

Answer 2

okay, unless she is ready to have a baby at 13 or messing up your life with the guilt of an abortion, you shouldn't be having s*x. if your ready for that kind of thing go for it. If not STOP things right now,  

Answer 3

Tell her that if she cares enough about you to have s*x with you, she should care about your feelings regarding the subject. You also need to think about whether she is the right girl for you if she wants to pressure you into doing something that you don't feel ready for. 13 is way too young to be having s*x anyway, especially if you don't even want to. Good on you for not falling to the pressure! :-)

Answer 4

be honest and just reiterate that you aren't ready and you don't want it and she'll get the point. also you should try to point out the consequences of s*x (especially on her) cause she definately doesn't sound ready to have kids.  

Answer 5

Just tell her she's crazy, and that it would be better to wait. Tell her that if she can't just give the idea of s*x up, then she can just give YOU up, and you won't go out with her anymore because you think you're too young, and she can go s***w up the rest of her life with some other guy that is not going to be as smart as you. You're smart for wanting to wait, good for you.

Answer 6

Be honest with her and at the same time if you really like her explain your reasons to her.  Let her know your listening and care about her but your just not ready.  Really it's too early you both have lots of time just enjoy each others company for now.  

Answer 7

your a smart kid wanting to wait till marirage =]

don't let her preasure you into it.

if she really likes/loves you she'd understand

Answer 8

Tell her you love you and respect and that it would be wrong at this time she needs to understand s*x won't help

Answer 9

dude i hate  to say this but your the first guy i know that the girl is putting presure on them to have s*x LOL people may say your lucky but for your situiation just tell her lol she should understand

Answer 10

well thats nice of you.. but really i think you need to tell her honestly what you feel.. it's the bst for both of you..

Answer 11

DON'T do it. Wait until you're married.

The same thing happened to me, and now I'm a single dad to a 1 year old daughter. If she loves you, she'd respect your decision to wait.

Answer 12

tell her shes to young

Answer 13

tell her to stop being a s.l.u.t or just break up 13 is really little for that...~xoxo ally*

Answer 14

The dirty s**t! How dare her! You should smack some sense into her

Answer 15

time to look for a new girlfriend. If she wants to have s*x for the sake of having s*x she is bad news. I am sure that her parents would be horrified to know that she wants to do it. I am sure that your parents would be horrified too if they knew you were discussing s*x with your girlfriend.

trust me s*x at 13 isn't going to be any fun. Wait until you are older and more mature (physically and mentally) before performing the act. It will be so much more rewarding.  

Answer 16

wow your a nice guy.

good choice of waiting =)

just tell her thats not what you want.

and 13 is really young.

if she doesnt want to wait then shes not worth it.

Answer 17

just tell her no.

this is weird girls are

usually the ones being pressured