I've just been served with an order to meet with a child support agency in NC. I've been paying support since my daughter was born, but it's never been court ordered, just worked out between us. Now that the mom is trying to go through the courts, what should I expect? We make approximately the same amount a year. She is paid hourly, I am strictly commission.
The agreement to this point has been we split childcare cost 50/50. She pays for insurance (she has much better insurance) and I pay for any co pays, etc. I also provide her with extra money from time to time as she needs it. I have receipts from nearly everything I have given her from day one also, just in case.
For the first three years, we split custody approximately 3 days with me, 2 days with the moms parents, and 2 days with the mom. Recently (withen the past 6 months) it's changed to 4 days with the mom, 2 with me, and 1 with her parents.
Thanks for any advice.
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