How's the s*x after having a baby?

Question

So I was just wondering how the s*x is like after having a baby, for both woman and the man.

1. Does it feel more stretched out and how much?

2. How soon can you start having s*x again after having a baby?

3. Is it still good as it was before having the baby?

4. Does your s*x drive drop after having the baby?

Please answer all aspects of my questions. Thanks!

Answer 1

I've been curious about the whole stretched out thing.  A bunch of these women are saying they got tighter but I honestly can't see how that's possible when they've squeezed a baby outta their vag!  Oh well.  I really really hope it's true.  

Answer 2

1. I was  told I felt tighter. (Something to do with the stretching then healing), very hard to get it in... sorta painful for a while.

2. 6 weeks

3. Yes

4. No, Mine didn't.  

Answer 3

1.- no it did not feel stretched out- maybe tighter

2. I had s*x about 5 weeks...I really was nervous..

3. Oh s*x is just as good if not better.. I achieve O better now than before

4. No I still have a high one!...My husband too

oh and my husband says that I did not feel different...besides a lot of that is in your head.. your thinking it.  

Answer 4

1. no not at all my husband said that it felt the same after a few weeks

2 You are encourage to wait until your 6 week postpartum check up   (i waited 10 days)

3. I think for us it got better. we appreciated it more! When We got the chance to be together It was amazing!!! :)

4. thankfully mine didnt.  the first few months maybe a little but that is because I was nursing and always had a baby touching me so the last thing I wanted was to be groped more! :)

That got better though

good luck to you

Answer 5

1. he never complained about how tight i was or wasn't :) he's happy!

2. 6 weeks

3. was just fine for us!!! i was actually awesome for me the first time with him again because i was waiting and waiting for almost 2 months!!!!

4. nope.  we've always been very sexually active together, we do it often but some times we go for a week or so without, but not much lol!!

Answer 6

1. yea

2. about 3 months

3. well for me yea

4.yea

before i didn't have the baby i use to have s*x 4 times in a week .how that i have the baby i only have s*x 4-6 times in a month and that just sometimes. but is all cool

Answer 7

well if your married your not ganna do it but no it should feel the same

Answer 8

1. I was also told it was tighter.

2. Atleast wait 6 weeks till after your postpartum appointment

3. No complaints yet on either side.

4. I'm pregnant with #2, also I think the lack of not being able to brings your s*x drive up, atleast in my experience.

Answer 9

Okay, personally I think it's better :) It took about 3 months or so after having my baby before we ever did anything again. I was tighter than before because of my episiotomy. I think after how long you have to wait it makes the s*x drive stronger and makes you desire eachother more because of the fact that you were not able to have s*x before.  I hope this answers your question :)  

Answer 10

well...i have 3 so it must still be good!!   LOL

1 it goes back

2 its recomended 6 weeks , see how you feel , ie stitches etc ..

3 yes!

4 HELLLLLLL no  

Answer 11

1 No

2 30 Days

3 Yes

4 No Not At All  

Answer 12

1. I WAS ALSO TOLD I WAS TIGHTER... LOL AHHH THE BODYS NATURAL WAY OF HEALIN..HAHA..

2. 6 WEEKS +

3. I WAS TOLD IT WAS BETTER THEN B4..

4.MINE DID AFTER MY FIRST 2 BOYS... BUT AFTER MY 3RD IT SOOOO WENT UP! LOL