How Can I Help A Grieving Teacher?

Question

My favorite teacher's dog just died. He died of colon cancer and it's really hard on my teacher (I'll call him Mr. F). Mr. F and I have always had a close relationship that never crossed the line of student teacher. He's always been there to help me and even tutor me through other classes that were not his own. He is really sweet and the kind of teacher that will allow you to mess with him and pick on him but at the same time rules his class with a firm hand.

He told me on Monday that his dog, Toby had to be put to sleep. I know he loved Toby. He would tell us long, in depth stories of the dog's antics and lovingly call him a "h**l-dog" instead of a "hellcat." After hearing of Toby's death, I couldn't help but feel bad. I mean, Mr. F loved Toby more than anything.

I want to do something for him but I don't know what would be appropriate. I don't want to cross the line or do anything that would seem disrespectful for to Mr. F or Toby. What do you think I should do?

Answer 1

Simply ask him, "Is there anything I can do to help you?". Of course, he'll respond with a no. But when he does, tell him, "I'm here for you."  

Answer 2

Flowers & a card are always good. :) That's what my class did when my teacher's father-in-law died and she cried between classes and whatnot.. hope he feels better. <3

Answer 3

How very nice of you.  I'm sure he appreciates you even if you don't do anything, because you are so caring and considerate.  I lost my dad last year, and I got notes from several of my students just telling me that they were thinking of me - those who were religious mentioned that they were praying for me.  It meant a lot.