How Can I Help Him 10 point best A?

Question

My husband is feeling very guilty and wants to do something about his daughter with his ex wife. His daughter is on Zoloft for depression and that she sees things. He got divorced from his ex when his daughter was almost 5yr, now she is 11yrs. I met him about 5yrs a go and we got married 3yrs a go we have a 2yr old son. His ex uses his daughter to get more money than the court ordered and when he say not she won’t let him see her 4the past 2yr we live in West cost they live in East cost. The ex drinks heavily and doesn’t have a job and her husband work in ad jobs. The lawyer said we can’t get custody of her ‘cause they will ask the daughter and if she says no and we don’t have prove of child abuse we can’t won it, and we will be taking off from lose money and time and lose the case.

Answer 1

If you really want custody of her. The fight for her...ask her where she wants to go...Show what you are doing...If you cant get custody get court ordered Visitation Rights....its his right as her father to see her.

Answer 2

You just have to support him and get the little girl some professional help, if she dangeraous you don't want her around your little boy. Is sad but there is no thing you guys could do.

Answer 3

I say support whatever decision your husband makes but I would also try and convince him to get her the help that she needs.Try and obtain documented proof that the ex is a heavy drinker and won't hold a job,also what does the little girl see? It may be possible to obtain custody if you can prove that this is not the best environment for the child.If you are successful at this then I would see that your husband gets good insurance on her and have her put in a hospital to evaluate her level of depression,she could just have depression right now because of an alcoholic mother who shows her no affection or love,or maybe she's angry at her mother because she doesn't get to do things with her friends because of lack of money due to the fact that her mother refuses to work. I would try and do whatever it takes to get that child the help she needs,nobody knows what her home life is like if you fight for her you could be saving her life.