How Can I Stop Arguing With My Mom? Its Driving Me Crazy. I feel Bad Fer Arguing With Her Buhh Yeah.?

Question

Please Help!

Tips On What To Do When I Get Mad?

How To Control My Anger?

How To Apologize To My Mom?

We Just Argued.

She's REALLY Stubborn By The Way.

Thanx All.

I Really Want Help.

C:

Answer 1

tell her that u hate arguing with her sit down with her talk it out tell her how u feel

Answer 2

If our mum is anything like my mother,  telling her you love her womt make much difference. I think you should simply remove yourself from the situation when things get heated.I know its difficult to have to listen to what your mum is shouting at you and not retaliate but do as best you can. You will stress yourself out more if you stay and argue with her and most likely things from the past will be brought up. Go to your room and swith on some music (quietly as not to heat things up again) or just sit and think, do whatever you feel you need to do at the time to calm you down. You may even want to punch your pillow or call a close friend and talk about it. This always seems to help me as your not all closing it up inside. Sometimes its very difficult to apologise if you feel shes in the wrong, and if she stubborn then its probably easier not to apologise directly, make her a cup of tea without making it look like your trying to suck up to her or just sit down in the same room as her without speaking,,just do everything in your power to avoid argument but show her that you have calmed down and you feel better now. It always works for me.

My main bit of advice is to avoid things which you know is going to start an argument i know it sounds silly but sometimes its the most obvious thing to do.

Hope ive helped.x

Answer 3

1 thing you can do is pretend your talking to your best friends mom and try to talk to your mom like you would talk to your best friends mom.

When you get mad just walk away, go do some exercise , listen to music, take some deep slow breaths, etc. Also you could try a stress ball. You can also look up tips on the internet for how to calm your anger.

And for your mom, you can ask her to sit down and talk with you. You can say ( nicely and politely)  that you don't like arguing and you'd like her to consider your views and feeling too.

And to apologize you can just say " I'm sorry for what i said mom, but sometimes i get really frustrated when I'm trying to say something and you don't hear me out".

Hope this helps!

Answer 4

I remember being in this place before.  I am now 25 and my mother is my hero and my best friend.  My mother is a control freak to the max.  For years she tried to make me be this perfect person in school and she embarrassed me in front of my friends.  I was so mean and hateful to her and would say things out of anger.  Today... my mom is my rock and all those moments paid off for me.  I am a good person who works hard.  I have a 2 yr old and one on the way.  We laugh about those times of rivalry now.  The best way to apologize is to become the person you are set out to become.  To be happy and successful in life.  Make choices that are right for you.  Be a responsible adult.  I do not know how old you are right now, but things only get harder as you get older.  You will one day realize how important all those fights were and you will understand one day what your mom meant when she said no means no.  I waisted many years of avoiding my mom when come to find out she is an amazing woman.  Keep a journal and write down your thoughts.  Spend time with your mom doing things even if it is once a month.  A mother is a valuable person in your life.  One day you will become a mother and remember your fights and pray that your son or daughter will understand too.  Good luck to you and your mom!