How Can I Stop Liking This Lad ?

Question

Were really good friends, but I'm scared I'm falling for him, how do i stop my self. We flirt alot and this just makes me like him more, but i know he doesn't like me because he has a girl friend! I'm scared if i dont stop liking him it will ruin our friendship. PLEASE HELP!!

Answer 1

eeek. that's hard. well the best to do is just don't flirt. and talk about things that you would usually talk about with a bestfriend.  

Answer 2

well if you guys are flirting alot and stuff like that i think you should try for a relationship, most solid relationships started with taht foundation of friendships at one point , most of my previous relationships were like that and they were great!!!   Look i realize you are nervous but you should definitely give him subtle hints to make him ask you out and see how it goes, maybe you are missing out on something incredible just because you are too nervous to ruin the friendship, if he is a decent guy you guys will be friends long after you break up, i am friends with all of my ex girlfriends.

good luck!

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