How Can One Person In A Marriage Be Happy And The Other One Not???

Question

My Friend is married to this guy and I know that he still talks to his ex telling her he loves her and wants her back stuff like that. My friend doesnt know he does that, but I ask her if they are having any problems and she says no they are happily married and have been for 4 years I dont get it how can she be real happy and him not? doesnt she get a feeling something is wrong??

Answer 1

He obviously leads a double life. He wants the best of both worlds and butters them both up to get it.

My husband told his mistress that our marriage had been over for years. The trouble was, he had not told me. I would love to have heard his explanation to her when she found out I was pregnant. That would have been something .  Men are cheaters.

Answer 2

That's a terrible thing and I would just steer clear of telling her anything about it. It's best to not even get involved.  All I have to say is that this guy has a problem because he isn't man enough to be honest with his wife.  On the other hand life must not be too terrible if his wife thinks things are SWELL.  I say leave it alone, and if this marriage is truly headed down south then it'll happen on its own in due time.

Answer 3

maybe she is too embarrassed to tell you. no one wants to admit their marriage is going downhill.  be sure to stay out of it, you have no business getting involved in another persons marriage

Answer 4

blind in love..some people are so in love they dont want to face the truth

Answer 5

She could be in denial, or just not willing ot share it all with you, b/c then it will be too real for her.  But, maybe she just doesn't know.   He sounds like scum. He married your friend, so he should respect their marriage.

Honestly, I would stay out of it. Anything you do can damage your friendship, and chances are, your friend will not believe you over her husband anyway. Just wait it out, and she will eventually find out on her own...and when it does, be there for her. I am sorry you are in this situation. =(

Answer 6

Easy.  He's a terrific liar and she's blind.