How Do I Get Out Of Visiting My Old School Mate?

Question

Me and my old best friend from my primary school have been chatting over the computer for a while now. I've always known she was a bi sexual, and I'm fine with it. But today she was asking me if it would be alright if she kissed me when we met up on Friday. I said sorry, but I didn't think of her like that. She was fine with it, but its extremely awkward. I let her down before and didn't go out with her, I really don't want to go but I don't want to hurt her feelings. How can I get out of visiting her? (Honesty is not an option)

Answer 1

When she said "kiss you", did she mean just like a kiss hello? I'm thinking that it's possible you overreacted slightly.

Just go - enjoy your old friends company, have a good time. The barriers have been established by the sound of things.

Answer 2

fake an illness and change your phone  

Answer 3

you are not forced into doing anything you dont want to do or see any one  you dont want to see.

dont go if you dont want to. she'll get the message.

sorry

Answer 4

Hi there,

Yeah, honesty is not always the BEST policy, lol. Sometimes, it can be a *****.

You state this isn't an option so I am not going to suggest you do this (as some other dim-wits will probably ignore you and tell you to be straight with her).

If you really don't want to visit her, make up a story, you could say your BF (if you have one) has surprised you with a holiday or you could pretend you're ill.

Failing that, just put her on block and if she ever sees you in the street, pretend your PC has screwed up.

Linzi. xx

Answer 5

I would stop all contact with her. You are not bi and that is it, but she is not going to change the way she feels about you. You can't keep on making excuses you have to tell her straight

Answer 6

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