How Do I Get Over My Crazy Jealousy? E-Z 10 POINTS!

Question

I have crazy jealousy for my boyfriend. Like anything to do with a girl, I don't like the idea. I know this has to change. I hate being this jealous and I want it to stop. Anyone have any suggestions how to stop my jealousy? I do trust him, I just dont trust girls. I also hate it when he touches himself for pleasure. I hate thinking that he may like it better than being with me. I hate this too, and I would like to get over it. How do I stop being to jealous towards him? He knows I am a very jealous girl. I told him I would do my best to make this stop. Any suggestions?

Answer 1

U NEED TO TRY TO BITE YOUR TOUNG EVERY TIME YOU FEEL YOUR JEALOUSY IS STARTING TO COME OUT,,N I MEAN LITTERLY BITE ! THEN U HOPFULLY  WILL NOT JUMP TO ANY CONCLUSIIONS N THIS WILL MAKE U N YOUR BF HAPPIER,,PEACE

Answer 2

If you trusted him, you wouldn't be jealous.  You would know he knows how to say "No" to another woman.  Your problem isn't with jealousy, it's that you don't trust him enough. As crazy as it sounds, maybe you should try group s*x to get over your feelings of jealousy.

You shouldn't worry that he touches himself either. Everyone does. My wife enjoys it when I do it in front of her. It gives her the chance to see what pleases me without her feeling pressure to perform. It really is the best of both worlds.

Answer 3

girl you got it bad lol if truth be told  most women feel jealous but my advice is to build your self esteem start telling yourself your good points, and if you feel that jelousy thing happen distract yourself going and clean take out your frustration, never never let your man know he play on it lol

Answer 4

ok breathe! ur going 2 live! i am in a long distance relationship and i have no idea what he is doing when he is not talking to me! but i trust him!

Answer 5

You have to learn to build some self confidence in yourself. Thats how you get over being jealous. Because the problem is with you, not him. I felt this way also when I was younger. And it was because I had no self confidence in myself and felt bad about myself. I was very insecure. So thats what you need to work on.  

Answer 6

every thought we have that goes threw our minds is manageable, when you feel jealousy its because your allowing it and not keeping it constrained, learn to control it or you will destroy your relationship, jealousy wears thin very quickly.

Answer 7

The feeling of jealousy comes from our insecurities. If you know he loves you then there is no need for the jealous feeling that you have. If you act like you arn't so jealous that will make him less prone to act up in front of women etc as he will start to wonder why you arn't so jealous, it's called reverse phsychology and trust me it works !!!

I have a younger sister just like you and she wants it to stop as well but it's something within you that you need to deal with and like i said it is called your insecurities.

I hope you manage to find it and deal with it cause in most cases the guy will eventually leave as they can't take it anymore so i wish you all the very best in your relationship. Knowing he loves you should make you feel secure but you obviously have doubts about how committed he is to you.

Seek counselling if need be as it's something you may need professional help with and they can show you tecniques on what to do whenever you get these feelings. worth a try?

Best of luck ~ shelly