How Do I Let Him Know I Trust Him & Im Sorry???

Question

My boyfriend & I where chillin on the beach last night and of course kissing led to touching and touching led to s*x....

When we finished he had his shirt off and in the light i saw some scratches on his back!!! In my mind the first thing that came up was that he had s*x with someone else and she scratched him so I started crying! He asked what was wrong so I asked why he had scratches on his back and he told me they were very old and he got them in high school from trying go up under a gate...

he got a little upset then showed me when we got in the car that they really were old!! And it was true so how do I fix this,

How do I tell him I'm sorry other than just saying it because we did that already! I was thinking a massage or something!

Answer 1

you are still very inmature and shouldnt be having s*x

Answer 2

you didnt blow up on him and scream at him-you just got concerned and sometimes that happens. tell him thatyou dont know what came over you- you thought the worst for whatever reason and that youre sorry for assuming. if you genuinly trust him then tell him that you trust him and will try not to assume the worst in the future. if you wana do something special for him do what you think he likes-if he likes massages---go for it!

Answer 3

I don't think a massage is going to be quite enough to be honest. He shouldn't be mad at you because of your reaction; remind him that if it were the other way around, he would most likely react in exactly the same way. Just keep apologising and make sure that you don't mention the scratches again. TELL him that you trust him, it will work as well as showing him. He's probably a bit put out that you think he likes you so little that he would be capable of something like that. So, remind him how much YOU like him and make sure he sees that you know the feeling is mutual.

Answer 4

Sexual healing.

Answer 5

I think you overreacted when you saw the scratches. There is no specific way to say you are sorry, just say it. Say: Hey look I'm sorry I accused you of that. Or whatever.

Good luck.

Answer 6

A card, a hand made one, would be sweet, but not pushing it.

If thats happened to you before, you can explain your insecurity and ask him if he's willing to let you work out your issues. If it hasn't that just let him know that your really afraid of getting your heart broken.

A card and a cd with songs about apologizing, songs you both like, songs you just want to show him, or songs you've made out to, etc is a good idea. u dont even have to fill the whole cd, it could be like 10-15 songs. If you dont have the resources (cd burner etc, just make a list of songs that remind you of him and why, decorate it, and give it to him)

Answer 7

more s*x