How Do I Shut This Little KidUp??!!!!?

Question

OMG, some1 help me: I love sleeping over at my BFF's house. But I HATE having her little sister there. She's 4 1/2, but u'd think she's 2!! She screams and cries if she cant do something first, she's mean if me and my BFF don't play one of what she calls them, "her" songs on or iPods when we have a speaker plugged into them, she throws a tantrum if my BFF wont get her a drink the SECOND she decides she 'needs' one, she talks the whole time a show is on and loudly at that, and she never says she's sorry if she hurts some1 (ex: we were on the trampoline and she acidently smacked her head against my BFF's nose and my BFF was literally crying, and the little monster wouldn't say she was sry!!). Oh, and she HAS to do EVERY LITTLE THING with us!!! what do i do? i cant say anything to my BFF because she gives in to her about EVERYTHING just so her little sister shuts up, but that sooo is not getting her anywhere!! HELP ME!!!!

Answer 1

bribe her off?

short of that not much you can do if your friend wont talk to their mom, its not your child to raise

really its the parents who need to step in here

Answer 2

How do i shut u up?

Answer 3

with little girls they ave to ave all the time but if u create a little role play for her to play in you will find she will not wont everything

Answer 4

That's normal for a 4 1/2 year old.  

Answer 5

Don't go over there anymore until your friend get her parents to realize that they can't throw a sibling into friend time. I've had friends where there parents won't let the friend do anything unless the little one tags along. Very very annoying. I stopped going over there and basically everyone else did to, thats when her parent realized what they were doing, wreaking there childs social life. Make sure you don't completely cut your friend out of your life, invite her to your house and such. Just let her know that you can handle the little sister c**p anymore. That kids sound like a brat, I hope things work out.  

Answer 6

Have your friend talk to her parents about it!  

Answer 7

4.5 years is the age when kids are by nature like this, most of us were like this when we were that age, so this is just normal, and I think your BFF does everything her sister says because she understands this, u are the one who needs to act mature and bear with this, I mean, wouldnt u have done the same if she was your own sis?  

Answer 8

Do the exact same thing she does back at her.

Answer 9

this is a tough one;your friend needs to have a family meeting when

all are present and there are no other pressing problems for the family

to deal with:wait for the right time! for instance when pizza is ordered

for dinner and your mom's not tired from cooking and cleaning up.Also

watch for your dad's mood if he's not in a good mood don't even try to

talk about your "little" problems with sis.

then open the conversation w a complement about how cute or smart

the kid is etc...

then mention that u would like to entertain your best friend and have a

little privacy when she's over due to the age difference you guys can't

really enjoy your time together in exchange for this volunteer to spend

time w the (brat) sis entertaining her w a game or go to park or some-

thing.don't tell how she is monster they probably know and in reality

are pushing her off on you.pretend it's a game:I always say you don't

raise kids you outsmart them!

good  luck I had 2 younger sisters!

Answer 10

beat her up

Answer 11

I have a friend that has a little sister too. She is less annoying, but she bosses me around if I don't play with her older sister. But sometimes she leaves me alone. U have to get and know her. Maybe she wants to hang out with u because she likes u but u always push her away. Sure, it may be annoying. But if u are that desperate, u should play hide and seek, let her count up to 10, and u run away with your friend. I'm just joking. Don't do that. I tried that before with my school enemy and it didn't work.

Tell the little 4 year old to step away then for the rest of the day she keeps quiet, tell her you will give her candy.  

Answer 12

tape her mouth shut ...lol ....you should just try feeding her ...every time she talks shove food in her mouth ....like candy ....lol

Answer 13

just talk to ur BFF and tell her that her lil sis is a big mess..and if someone does not deal with her now, she is gonna be big pain 4 everyone.

Answer 14

she needs a good poping  

Answer 15

I think your friend should talk to her parents and let them know. Her sister is a spoiled brat that needs some disciplining. Your friend has a right to not do everything with her. She should not be able to do everything your friend does. Jeez tell your friend to stop giving in and put her foot down. Hello she is older and she deserves respect. As for that spoiled brat good luck :)

Answer 16

how about you and your bff chill at your house?

Answer 17

Play hide-and-go-seek with her.  Don't find her.

Answer 18

Just tell her to shut up. It seems to me that you guys have tolerated her too much. Just tell he to shut up.

Answer 19

Tell her parents to be PARENTS.

Sleep over at your house all the time then.

Answer 20

give her what she like

some video game or toy