I spoke to my sister on numerous occasions about sneaking her boyfriend into my mother’s home. She has a 3 year old daughter and at nights she would put my niece to sleep on a mattress on the floor and she and her boyfriend sleeps on the bed. When he leaves in the morning she pushes the mattress under her bed and put s my niece back on the bed. Last night he came in around 10:30pm and left around 5am. Because the door closest to our part of the house makes noise when it is opened she walks him past my mother’s bedroom door which is usually open, towards another door to let him out. My mother does not like this guy and recently she has been dealing with high blood pressure and on medication. We have had soooo much issue with my sister – cooking our food to give this guy, bringing his clothes to wash at our house. My mother is so torn up, upset and disappointed in my sister’s behavior that I am afraid to tell her that the guy is now sleeping in her house.
My sister and I both moved back home last year after college and personally I am trying to get myself financially stable so that I can move out, however I feel like I need to be there to protect my mother because most of the time she is unaware of the sick stuff my sister tries to get away with. My sister works but recklessly spends her money so she will not be able to move out anytime soon. My mother is the kind of mom who would not put us out so that is not an option.
I was soooo mad this morning, I really just wanted to slap some sense into my sister. I have spoken to her before and now I don’t know what to do to deal with this situation. My only plan of action right now is to get rid of the mattress she puts my niece to sleep on and threaten to tell my niece’s dad about what is going on. However the thought of talking to my sister about this issue AGAIN makes me sick. I am basically just so tired and worn thin from dealing with this mess, I just am at a lost of what I can do. Can anyone offer me any advice?
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