How I can stop giving arrogant unkind answers ?

Question

For example today she asked me : Do u need some help? and I said: if i need help i would aks for it!!!, so I dont wanna answer like that u know shes my mom i dont wanna hurt her or make her get angry...

Answer 1

To heck with her if that is how she feels.

Answer 2

What the h**l do you mean, how can you stop?  Just stop!  Don't act like your behavior is not under your control.

Answer 3

grl i make rude tings like dat every day an worse!!! but disrespectin ur mom like dat ,,u got issuse

Answer 4

you may also try in other category,

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or family,

magnumgirl has a good reply,

~so as she only asked a simple question, has she done this often before, causing you to react repeatedly to a point of annoyance, may be time to talk to her about such issues, separate from homework,

~it may also be that you are trying to concentrate, and being alone and calm is more important than being distracted at the time, and therein you may want to take a needed time out, and go for a walk to calm down, before you have a conflict with others around you,

~any ways communication is important, and may help both persons to chat about the topic at hand and related issues when time permits,

~and other factors may apply, moon phases, diet, bf/bbf,

you could (both) always watch a few shows, and chat,

Raising Helen

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0350028/

Mean Girls

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0377092/

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Answer 5

remember people aren't going to be here forever. some of us don't have the luxury of having mums anymore so cherish your time

heres a thought: someone once said to me its interesting that the way we treat the people we love (like in your example) but when it comes to strangers we tend to give them the utmost courtesy and kindness. Dont the people we love deserve just as good if not better?!!

Answer 6

I used to have that problem also, I had to learn to take a deep breath and think about how I was going to respond. First put on a smile, not phony, then say " I think I can get it Mom, thanks anyway"  Once you master that it will get easier and easier. Beleive me, it's true. Hope this helps. Just stop and think.