How To Be More Assertive???

Question

my manager told one of the girls she might hire me as a 2nd manager in charge but i need to be more assertive...

how can i do that?

somtimes if i feel i need to tell somone to do somthing i feel like i dont have the right to as im not a manager at all...

so please give me some tips thanks :)

best answer 10pnts!!!

Answer 1

As a communication style and strategy, assertiveness is distinguished from aggression and passivity. How people choose to deal with personal boundaries; their own and those of other people.  Passive communicators do not defend their own personal boundaries and thus allow aggressive people to harm or otherwise unduly influence them. They are also typically not likely to risk trying to influence anyone else. Aggressive people do not respect the personal boundaries of others and thus are liable to harm others while trying to influence them. A person communicates assertively by not being afraid to speak his or her mind or trying to influence others, but doing so in a way that respects the personal boundaries of others. They are also willing to defend themselves against aggressive actions from others.

Answer 2

Get involved in situations where you obviously don't belong and wind up being helpful. Like when a large group of customers come up, talk to the customers to make sure they are having a pleasant shopping experience yadda, yadda, yadda. Just, find something that is really optional and might be annoying, not rude, and swallow your pride.