How To Get On when Your Best Friend Hates You, And We have the same friends?

Question

I had a best friend, And she now Hates me, Doesn't Want to Be my friend anymore. But We hang out with The Same People And Whenever Shes Around i Get jealous and i fell Really Sad About What happened... i wanna Stop This And Get on With my Life Without crying whenever i see her. Help Me!

Answer 1

Just pull her away from the group and talk to her privately. Just be like, "Hey, I'm sorry that we're no longer close anymore, but can we at least be cool?" "I don't want to have to put up with you always glaring at me and being upset. Things just happened, so I think we should just let it go and besides, life is too short to hold a grudge, so we should do the mature thing, and start over. If she doesn't want to listen, then tell her that she needs to stop being immature and deal with the fact that you guys have the same friends and shes' going to have to get used to it. I hope you guys make up! =]

Answer 2

I'd hate to tell you this but you might actually need to get a new set of friends to hang out with because this could potentially involve more than just you and her. It basically all depends on whether you want to risk talking to her and risk having her talk about the situation between the two of you with the people that the two of you hang out with. I don't think its worth it personally because you shorten your life the more you let people deter you from living your life. Because of the fact you've shed tears over this I'd say she's really not worth crying over..and its a relationship not worth saving

Answer 3

Well, time will heal you, but all you can really do is move on. If she´s not crying over you, you should stop crying over her. I know it hurts, and you probably miss her and I bet she misses you two, but whatever happened, happened and if you can´t change anything, there´s nothing you can do, just accept the fact that she´s not your best friend anymore.

Try going out with your friends and avoid talking about her. And something always helps a girl out is shopping and shanging your hair look. Sometimes when you change your look a bit you feel different, like starting a new episode in your life. Try it, I´m sure that´s what you need, another start!