How To come Out?!? and not to my parents but to my sister!?

Question

Ok i know several people ask how do i come out etc. but every bodies can be different but mine is more different than coming out to my parents cause i live with my sister. i am kinda dependent on her, well cause i'm 17 and still in high school. so if anyone has any suggestions that would be incredibly flipping awesome i have come out to a few other people, i could do that cause they are complete strangers at first but i have always known my sister it scares me cause she can be a homophobe at times and i really don't want to wait. it bothers me constantly. i am bout to start school and don't really give a f^&* bout wat others think so yea info would be so friggin great right bout now

Answer 1

Just time it so that she's not going out anywhere later on that evening, make her a cup of tea and tell her.

She may be aware on some level already, but do be prepared for some kind of reaction. And be patient with her, because it can be difficult to finally hear it even if you have been aware of it for some time.  

Answer 2

Listen, the fact that your g*y doesn't make you any less of a man. If you've known your sister all your life (obviously lol) she will understand. at first she might take it a bit hard but don't get upset, she just has to understand that the fact that your g*y doesn

t change who you were your whole life. she's your sister and she loves you. so she'll understand.

i hope everything works out for you!!!

x*x

Answer 3

justs it down and spill. i have lots of mates who are g*y. Your sister may even already have her suspicions.  

Answer 4

You will feel better after you tell her than how you feel now so get it over and done with as soon as possible. Leave her a note - much less awkward. Good luck.

Answer 5

it's likely that your sister has her suspicions already, you just need to be brave, tell her and then give her some space to come to terms with it, most people are accepting when there is no alternative, she loves you so it'll be o.k. in time.

Answer 6

well i have a few friends who are g*y..and they told me that they were scared of coming out..so what i can tell u..is sit down with ur sister and tell her..the sooner the better..cuz if u dnt tell her now then later on ur going to be more scared..right?idk..tell her and tell her how u feel..tell her that she can be a homophobe and that she needs to be respected towards you..talk it out with ur sis..wish u lots of luck!!