How about this for a question.Plz Any Input is appreciated?

Question

A guy that you knew before that was:

*Your Best Friend

* Everyone Said He Liked You

*Says to your friend He Hates You 100% and only wants to hear negative comments made about him coming from you "hating someone that hates you"(first he says he doesnt hate you he just doesnt care about you then he says he wants you to hate him)

*Talks about you even when no one brings you up.

Obviously im asking because I care.Or else there would be no point to the question.Plz any answers would help.Any input.

Could you please include your age.Thanks.

Answer 1

I'm only sixteen but maybe there is some kind of misunderstanding? Like he is mad at you for something, but you don't realize what it is you did wrong? I mean, if he's your best friend, how can he really hate you? Is it that he was your best friend? Wouldn't there be a reason for why he all of a suddenly got so cruel in his behavior involving you? You should confront him and see whats up, especially if you think he's a nice enough guy to be worth all of the worry and care. Don't take anyone's word on him but his own. If it turns out he is a jerk, and there's nothing you can do about it, forget him. But maybe he's upset about something completely different than involving you, but just lashing out at you because your his best friend. If I understand what you were saying, then you seriously need to talk to him about it, and get all the information out, talk it all through. Hope that helps, and good luck.  

Answer 2

from reading your post and getting a sense from some of your key words, it sounds like (to me) that you act like you have the upper hand with him towards the end of the friendship?  if not, i misread it but the way you wrote "he doesnt have enough nerve" sounds like you're thinking "why would i ever like HIM?"  is that why he might have gone "ballistic"?  just imagine if someone you liked found out you liked him but he didnt feel the same way you do, you would be so embarassed, right? so have some compassion so that karma will be kind to you if something like this happens to you in the future.

he is obviously nervous now that you "know".  if you want to be friends with him again, then just send him a note saying:

"dear xx,

i miss your friendship and whenever you get a chance to sort through your thoughts, i hope we can be friends again.

signed yy"

and leave the next move up to him.

leave the guys better off after having met you than before they met you.  be the kind of rare flower that many guys will be after.  this is my advice to you.  good luck.

Answer 3

confront him. that is all.