My fiance is making me post this question, and give the full details, so here it is:
I was a dumba*s at 14 and got a girl pregnant, and she had twins. She killed herself 3 years later, so it's been me and the 2 of them. I'm 21 now, they're 7.
I don't like telling them what to do, honestly. I can't quite fit the title "Dad" on myself...so I don't like giving orders or making rules, and let them pretty much talk to me how the want, eat what they want as long as it's not junk all the time, watch whatever show or movie they want as long as it's not p**n. To put it more distinctly, I prefer for the 3 of us to be best friends, rather than "I'm the boss, you're the kid--OBEY ME!" When the teachers at school complain about their behavior, I don't punish them because I feel like an as*hole when I do. If they ever do something I ask them not to do, I pretty much say "Man, come on, be a pal, will ya?"
My gf says unless I put my foot down and act like a dad, she'll leave. How am I bad?
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